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She never likes to be alone with me
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i have been going out with this girl for just over a month now and have hardly ever been alone with her. we are going to our school supper dance thing next weekend and she said that she wanted to stay round mine. but then she goes on saying, can u invite some others round as well. i dont see the point as we are just going to end up in my bedroom anyway! i want to be alone with her, but she never wants to, i asked her this and said she did want to be with me, but i dont see her often because of various other commitments we both have, mainly her! it just gets me down when i dont see her that often, i like her so much, and it just pisses me off when i dont get to see her very often, why isnt she as keen to see me?
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I have never been alone with any of my girlfreinds, only once for about a minute. but these relationships never lasted long, so i cant really imagine how u r feelin.
these things take time, i would consider telling her what you've told us.
Yes, and he's asking for those reasons.
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
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2) I'm male
3) I gave up tryin to understand women a long time ago
sorry im not being much help! maybe your gf is nervous of being alone with you chris, maybe she feels you want to take things further, faster, than she does? it sounds like that could be the case.. especially considering she wants you to invite more people round to stay.. when you just say youre going to end up in your bedroom anyway. sometimes girls just like to have their friends around them, in potentially scary situations, however enjoyable. and if things get too much or something they can go off and be with their friends who theyre comfortable with etc.
i have the feelign im not making all that much sense. *slaps her head.. then regrets it!*
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Maybe she feels like she is being put under pressure and things r going too fast...
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
Try not to worry about it too much, cos if you're uptight, she'll pick up on this, and it won't get any better between you.
Good luck!
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