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I'm such a Bitch!

I feel like such a bitch......I have 2 probs....

Number 1: I have been goin out wit this great guy called Matt 4 about 2 months now everything is so great, u know when ur still in those 1st few stages of a relationship. Well ne way thats all good & everything but I thought i woz over my ex Tom, i've been split up from him ever since just b4 xmas & we were 2gether for 5 months.

I have just recently became mates wit Tom again & i realised i still had feelings 4 him a little bit although i wouldn't go out wit him again coz he's changed 2 much.
Ne way i buy my drugs & shit off him & last nite he came round 2 deliver my latest 'order'. He asked me if i wanted 2 come out & smoke wit him & his mates so i did, we got totally stoned & we ended up getting off a few times.......I feel SOOOOOO bad!!!

I then thought it woz just the drugs but he foned me a few mins ago & told me he still really likes me & wants me back! (I'm the one who broke off the relationship) He knows i'm wit Matt now which i reminded him of & i also told him i wasn't interested in starting a relationship up wit him again after last time......

He now isn't talking 2 me, he hung up on me & i tried foning him back but he didn't answer his fone, i don't wanna tell Matt coz it didn't mean ne thing 2 me & even though he don't know Tom he don't really like him that much coz of the way he treated me & i really like Matt so i don't wanna fuck things up, i just feel like such a bitch!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;


Number 2: I'm goin 2 Blackpool after my GCSEs wit my mate Lou. The thing is Matt has asked if he can come as well & i said yes.......

He said he is gonna bring along another mate so it won't just be me, him & Lou but i haven't told Lou he is coming yet coz i don't think she is gonna be 2 happy bout it....I dunno wot the hell 2 do......especially after wot has happened wit Tom.....(no1 knows about it except me & him)
PLEASE HELP.....soz it woz so long......XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well number 1 you shud not be taking drugs, <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; i think u should just finish matt and dont go out with tom. cos u r being really unfair on matt and tom u dont even want to be with him.

    and finishing matt will help prob number 2!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WELL SOZ DARLING JAMIE! but i dissagree, i dont think she should finish matt as she likes him but i do think u should tell him bout tom, and let him decide wot he wants to do cos keeping him in the dark is unfair.

    prob 2: well i think u should sort out prob 1 first!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh my god babe, you have major issues!
    ok lets get things sorted here. matt is the guy you want as your boyfriend (hes the one your with at the moment) and tom is your ex who you just wanna be friends with but he wants more.
    if thats the case then i think you need to sit tom down and have a mong talk IN PERSON not on the phone. talking to someone face to face is much better i promise, plus the fact that he can't just hang up on you or not pick up the phone. say to him that things will never be like they used to be. you broke up for a reason afterall but you do still like him as a person and would like it if you could be friends. explain how you've got a new guy and you don't wanna jepadise your relationaship with him. if he gets funny about it, just tell him that its friends or nothing at all.
    on the other hand, if you still have feelings for tom then you need to sort that out in your own head - which one do you want most? only you can answer that, and o suggest you get some space from them while you figure it out.
    as for the going to blackpool thing, i'm afraid i'm missing something coz i haven't read previous threads so i can't comment on that!
    anyway i hope this has been of some help to you and whatever you decide to do - HAVE FUN!!!
    see ya, whizzy

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well firstly, i think u shud b honest about getin off wiv him, if he finds out dat u lied 2 him it wil b a million times worse. just say i was so stoned, n i really love u and im so sorry...

    2ndly, i think u shudnt have really sed he could come on holiday until u asked ur m8. i think u shud ask her, n if she says no then tell him that he cant come.

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