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Case of the ex!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
That guy i was telling you's all about before i had to leave for a while! My new boyfriend! Well its been about a month now! He's really great!, understands me and everything! We both care a great deal about each other BUT before he was with me he was with this girl for about 1yr they broke up, and hated each other! But shes not going to leave him alone! Everytime im with him, shes always sending him msgs, and phoning him! They meet up evry Sunday! Hes told me he as no feelings for her....i dont know! And i know she has feelings for him! Shes sooo annoying! I walk past her at school i get the evil eye! My friends have already threatend her but she doesnt care! His best pal(is my best boy pal) has told me he wouldnt go back with her! But im not convinced! I dont want to say anything to him cause i might affend him, and if i say anything to her shaes goin to go and tell him! Please help
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i dont mean to put a downer on nethink, but this happened tome, and it turned out worse than u cud imagine. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    he went with the girl behind my back 4 ages, and lied to me about it soooo many times, i got really fcuked up over it and i thought it was because i was too ugly/fat/horrible, but now i realise it was just him being the tosser that he always is.

    eventually i forgave him,and everyhting was fine and dandy because i told him that i wudn't get back with him if he ever started to speak to each other agiain.

    Then, she foned him 1 day and they started bein friends again. Our relationship turned sour, i broke it off. Now he's with her again, and slaggin me off so much i want to punch him every time i c him. i wudnt mind but he's actually turned sum of my m8's against me.

    Anyway, this is about ur problem not my life,im sorry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I think u shud just b aware ok? please, i dont wanna c u get hurt like i did. let them b friends, but if u think that nething is gonna happen between them, talk to him about it asap and get it out in the open.

    Good luck babes!

    ~*~Emma~*~

    Sorry for rambling on!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ooooh and how is baby btw? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm in a similar situ, His ex keeps texting him, nowt that would piss me off, just day to day events, its just the fact that its her. I think they have a lot of history together, and i suppose its ok that they are still friends, they were together for 4 years. I know i still talk toi my ex who i was also with for 4 years. But like you, i know that she would do owt to get him back. I feel like i'm competing with her all the time, but can't talk to boyf about it in case he gets pissed off with me and goes back. Its a tough one. Suppose i'm lucky in that i've never met her.

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