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Confused (as ever)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hey peeps. This is a bit of a trivial one, but I thought I'd share it anyway.

Right I fancy this girl in my french class, she is lovely - maybe a bit out of my range but I'm workin on it.

I was thinking about her all last night, and I realised got a huge crush on her. I also read my horoscope this mornin it woz on about how I should go for anything thats in my sights whatever the obstacles. Sounds good I thought.

So I'm sittin in French today, and for the first time EVER the girl talks to me. Okay she only asked me a simple question about French verbs, but she could easily have asked her mate that sat beside her, which completely freaked me out lol.

Next thing is, her mate (who again has NEVER spoken to me before), started talkin to me as if she was my best mate or something, okay again it was about the work, but she was really freindly to me.

I think it might be fate or somethin, if not its a huge coincidence !!

But as some of u know, I was feeling awful over a different girl over the weekend, and I am really confused, I might be reading too much into this, but its a really weird feelin.

Any thoughts would b appreciated.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MAYBE AS THIS GIRL hasnt spoke 2 u b4 and did 2day she may like u a bit, so 2 act cool! she talked 2 u about somthin general (work) i think u should just talk 2 her about friendly stuff and c if u can pick up ne signs and take it from there! anyway good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm i agree with jolizzie.

    don't jump straight into nefink, just start off as friends, and see where it leads!

    Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have to say, I really hate it when ppl think other ppl are out of their leauge and out of their range!!

    I never ever get asked out, I get told by guy's friends that they fancy me, but I never get asked out, I've asked guy's why this is and they say I'm too intimidating, because I'm pretty, and they think I'll say no!! Which is why I end up having pratts asking me out, because no - one else will!!!

    Have you thought this may be the case with this girl, giver her a chance, don't find anything she does suppicious, talk to her, be friends with her and make your move!! Believe me she'll respect you for having more confidence than most guys!!!!!
    I thoud I saw a puddycat, I did, I did see a puddycat!!
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    if i was going to write a meaningful reply to this i would write whats already been said, so theres absolutely NO point in me writing this, other than to let you know ive read it! hehe
    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If only I could have read the replies this morning BEFORE I went to school.....

    When I came out of the class today, I dropped her a letter on her desk with her name on it. It was about how I have had a massive crush on her for ages etc, but I DIDNT ask her out which was probably a good thing. I gave her my mob number and said if she dont wanna ring me then dats fine with me, just act like nothins happened.

    I cant beleive what I've done, I'm such a wuss, I'm almost 18, goin to uni before long and I'm still righting love letters, just as I did when I was 10.

    Still, I would never have had the guts to ask her out, specially in front of her mates. I guess I should have tryed to be freindly, before jumping in like an idiot.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    confusedmale, maybe it would have been better to take things slowly, you may have rushed in a bit, which im sure youve been thinking yourself!! but never mind, all is not lost, if she feels the same then hopefully you'll be well away! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I so wish I hadnt given her that note now, its only a small class I'm in (6 people) so things r gonna b very awkaward from now on.
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