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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hey u guys, i dont really dont know why this bothers me so much as its so pathetic but i would really appreciate ur opinions...

The problem is not with my boyf but his good female friend and her attitude towards me.
First of all i dont suspect my boyf is cheatin on me, i have been good freinds with him for over a year b4 we started goin out so i know him totally well so that rules out ne possibilites of me being suspicious of them.

Thing is that drives me mad about her is that when me boyf first introduced me to her she completely ignored me and has never made an effort to get to know me, and recently she has said that my boyf is not spending enuff time with her now that he has a girlfriend and she hasnt really been speaking to him as much as she used to. I could sympathise with her if this was true!

I really dont understand why im feelin so shit about this and why she gets to me so much, but she only seems to be makin things worse for me. My boyf is pissed of with her attitude towards me but if they have an arguement it makes me feel like im splittin up their friendship and vice versa.

Please help. i dont want to be the reason their freindship suffers but then again i dont want her to be the cause of us to break up etc. i love my boyf to be bits and were just as much as close friends as they are to each other.. im just so frustrated and dont know what to do.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wish i could help u but i'm in a similar situation 2 u.....sucks don't it?

    My bf is really good mates wit his ex, and she don't seem 2 like me very much & has told me b4 that she likes him still & will do ne thing 2 get back wit him & i'd better watch my back according 2 her.

    I woz really pissed off when she said that 2 me but decided 2 ignore her & not retaliate & i know my bf wouldn't cheat on me coz i trust him but it still gets on my nerves the way she is wit me all because i've got sumthing she had & still wants.

    Ne way soz 4 taking over ur topic but i know how u feel. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    xxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh this whole thing sucks!

    I can sympathise with u totally.
    I just hate the fact that my boyf tells her stuff about us and me. I feel uncomfortable with her knowing about me and my private life and I know nothing about her and she makes no effort!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    honey, i sympathise with you totally. I am in the same situation but its gone one step further with my boyf and 'her'. They wouldnt cheat on me (well i know he wouldnt but i wouldnt put it past her to try!!!) but he talks to this girl about ME! about what i do and my past and its kinda...creepy coz i dont even know her but i go to college with her...ew. i hate the thought that she knows stuff about me that i told him in confidence, stuff i never told my best mate...(until recently) so i sympathise honey. the thing is if you say you dont like her then there is a chance that they start talking privately which makes things more uncomfortable for you. it happened to me and i hate it...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This might help a bit:
    http://www.thesite.org/relationships/lovelife/love_them,_shame_about_the_friends.html
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how did the lead balloon get up there in the first place?
    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    PMT again, Turtle? You could always try evening primrose oil. Keeps your shell nice and shiny anyways.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx 4ur help u guys.
    xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    goddammit, ruining my joke u evil heathen.

    if u'd said PMS, yes, i would've agree: pedantic man syndrome.

    but NOOOOO, u had to go say PMT - pedantic man...??????

    freaking loony.
    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *puts Turtle over her knee and spanks him yet again*

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Karla:
    *puts Turtle over her knee and spanks him yet again*


    lovely end to a delightful topic
    RULE BRITTANIA
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/flags/uk.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    again? i dont' even remember the first time...oh of course not, u wouldn't be any good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    u can't win. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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