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HELP! My Mum and my ex's Dad tied the knot...
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I think the title says it all. It is HELL and it's all a secret. PLease help me!!!
Last year my family went on holiday to Spain& i met paul[16-i was 15 then.]We got on like, REALLY well and we spent all our time together:I couldn't tell my parents about it cuz my Dad would have probably ripped Paul's balls off or something;a bit of an exaggeration mabe but i wouldn't have been able to see him anymore.
i ended up losing my virginity to him on the beach one night after my family were asleep, all very romantic <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> Anyway, he lived 2 far away so i knew it wasn't going to be a relationship or anthing, even though i loved him
long time later after my parents divorced and my mum started seeing other blokes again, she got engaged out of the blue b4 we even met his kids. then i find out that he's paul fuckin dad and we agreed to keep it secret bcuz of the underage sex thing, and now they're married and he sleeps in the room next to mine!! it's fuckin crazy i know but one day when they'd all gone out we talked about it all and now he reckons that he loves me. at first i didn't know whether 2 believe him or not bcuz he'd already slept with five girls by the time i met him and probably a few since me, but he never goes out with other girls ne more and now we're sleeping 2gether again. there is no way in HELL ne1 can find out but i hate all this sneaking around in case we get caught. plus i 'hyperthetically' talked to a m8 about it and she said every1 would think it's sick to sleep with your stepbrother, and because we're all dead close as a proper family now. WHAT THE HELL AM I S'POSED 2 DO?!?!?!?!?!
*|* Chica *|*
Last year my family went on holiday to Spain& i met paul[16-i was 15 then.]We got on like, REALLY well and we spent all our time together:I couldn't tell my parents about it cuz my Dad would have probably ripped Paul's balls off or something;a bit of an exaggeration mabe but i wouldn't have been able to see him anymore.
i ended up losing my virginity to him on the beach one night after my family were asleep, all very romantic <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> Anyway, he lived 2 far away so i knew it wasn't going to be a relationship or anthing, even though i loved him
long time later after my parents divorced and my mum started seeing other blokes again, she got engaged out of the blue b4 we even met his kids. then i find out that he's paul fuckin dad and we agreed to keep it secret bcuz of the underage sex thing, and now they're married and he sleeps in the room next to mine!! it's fuckin crazy i know but one day when they'd all gone out we talked about it all and now he reckons that he loves me. at first i didn't know whether 2 believe him or not bcuz he'd already slept with five girls by the time i met him and probably a few since me, but he never goes out with other girls ne more and now we're sleeping 2gether again. there is no way in HELL ne1 can find out but i hate all this sneaking around in case we get caught. plus i 'hyperthetically' talked to a m8 about it and she said every1 would think it's sick to sleep with your stepbrother, and because we're all dead close as a proper family now. WHAT THE HELL AM I S'POSED 2 DO?!?!?!?!?!
*|* Chica *|*
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Chica, you certainly are in a bit of a stick situation. I guess socially it is for you to decide, but if you take it any further then I would check out the legal side of it as well.
It would be difficult to have a relationship under those circumstances as well. Try and do it but it's gonna cause a lot of bad feelings if n e 1 finds out and trying not to let them find out will be hard as well.
I'd go for calling it off. Unless u really do have strong feelings for him ur moms happiness is more important cos she's obviously in love with his dad
He reckons he wants us to 'be together', whatever the hell that can mean in this situation - but he doesn't want the folks to find out under any circumstances. It's even worse now bcuz the folks, my sis and his bro openly refer to as all as brothers and sisters which just makes me want to throw up.
Neither of us wanna hurt our family with this bcuz both of the past marriages were violent and this is like, the only time all four of them have ever really been happy b4. I know this secret would ruin everything but 2 b honest, even though no-one knows about it paul and me really had something b4 our parents even met.which just makes it one hell of a lot harder.