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Spin-off things that make you feel sexy...what makes you feel wanted or loved
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As the title says :thumb:
For me: Hugs, especially when sleeping. text messages that make me go "awwww" like just being let know that im being thought of
, being brought a hot chocolate when i dont feel well, being kissed on the forehead (not sure why), having my hand held
For me: Hugs, especially when sleeping. text messages that make me go "awwww" like just being let know that im being thought of
, being brought a hot chocolate when i dont feel well, being kissed on the forehead (not sure why), having my hand held 0
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The way she look at me or talk about her feeling for me... For loved...
for wanted i meant non-sexual, but fair enough
I said for loved as well, I interpreted wanted as sexualy for some reason...
I feel loved when I'm asked about things that are happening in my life even though they are totally uninteresting to everyone except me, this counts for double when i'm allowed to babble on about nothing and the person listening acts so interested even though they probably arent.
I feel wanted when I get a big bear hug that lasts for ages and not because im hanging on to them like an idiot but because they want to hug me back.
when he looks at me in "that way"
The way he speaks to me, the way he will do things for me and wont act all put out. The way hes appreciative when i do things for him, every time
Aye.
It's nice when everything fits too. Hard to explain, but when the other person thinks the same way you're thinking, then it's just dead nice.
i think for me hugs are the biggest thing, i love getting them and giving them
Ooo agreed!! I love that feeling when you are on the same wavelength as someone but can still enjoy disagreeing about things.
ETA: There's other things too but I can't remember them.
Awww
That is cute...
I totally have to agree with that.
It's the originality. If she planned a lot for my birthday party, or remembers little things I mentioned sometimes.
When she grabs my hand, gives me a little kiss to show, "he belongs to me."
Oh yes, that is lovely.
I mostly feel loved when I'm in a lazy mood/hungover and he rolls all my cigarettes for me. I feel wanted when he's feeling lazy and I have to roll his cigarettes for him. Who said romance is dead?
When you just chat for ages at night time before going to sleep.
Being hugged while going to sleep.
Or even when you're just walking down the street on a random day and doing random stuff, when you're holding hands and just so at ease with each other and everything just seems so cool.
Just thoughtful stuff too, like her knowing what you like from Burger King. A lot of that seems proper nothing, but when you've had really shit relationships before then you really appreciate things like that when stuff is good.
I always find it's the tiny, automatic things that are the most honest.
Anyone can make overblown romantic gestures, but it's when they do the little things everyday, without even thinking about it, that's when I feel the most loved.
I dont think I will EVER take my relationship for granted now.
Deffo the most important thing is to always cherish what you have and not take it for granted.
This all reminds me of something Rolly posted a while back about how it's really important not to expect the relationship to be brilliant all the time, and sometimes you might get a lull, but then sometimes you'll feel butterflies and feel totally loved up and it's just the best feeling in the world.
When he gives me an unexpected hug from behind (my favourite!)
Random texts.
Random walks.
Anything random!
Spontaneous is best
I was going to say the same thing... when he just appears from nowhere and hugs you from behind and then kisses you on the neck
Or when you're out with a group of friends and then at the end of the night he tells you lil thoughts that he was thinking of while you were out together... like how beautiful you looked.
.. the person calling/texting just when you were thinking about them
.. remembering little, seemingly unimportant things you have said
.. wanting to show you off to their friends and family (even tho it can be scary to meet them, i like this one a lot, kinda shows that they are proud of being with you
.. a text message just to say goodnight
.. catching them looking at me for no reason
.. playing with my hair (:yes: :yes: )
.. looking after me when I am sick
.. going out and they choose a restaurant/movie/activity that I would like and really get into it, even when it is not what they would choose for themselves
.. flowers
hmm.. i could go on and on