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I want.....
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
...a woman. For a normal relationship.
But why ain't it happening?
But why ain't it happening?
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Seriously, though.
Where do you think you're having problems? Meeting new people, for instance?
If it's the first one, then it's impossible for me to answer without patronising you.
If it's the latter, then all I'll say is you'll have to kiss a lot of frogs till you meet your princess.
Cheeky :yes:
Yep, that just about sums it up. I'm 32 and I'm not looking for 'fun' or anything casual, I really want to settle down.
I don't seem to have trouble meeting women online - none of them turned out to be girlfriend material really.
I don't think I set my sights too high - a woman would have to be at least average looking (some may call me shallow for taking looks in to account but I have no control over what I find attractive) and although definately not stick-thin, she shouldn't be overweight. I'm far from perfect but again there are certain things I look for. She'd need to be fairly intelligent as well, that's equally as important. Caring, funny, good conversation, that sort of thing.
I just can't seem to approach you women - you have that built-in fear sensor don't you - you can smell desperation a mile off. Ok, I guess the advice is to relax and be myself - but 'myself' is a man looking for a woman!
Sorry for rambling on guys....:hyper:
Do you think it might be a looks thing?