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Hi,
I just want to ask for some opinions really.
Would it annoy you if your NOW boyfriend or girlfriend texted their ex quite frequantly? In a real friendly mannor.
Especially if this ex hurted you're current boyfriend or girlfriend the worst way possible- by shagging someone else for quite a while before telling them.
It's happening to me at the moment and Im not sure if I should just accept that they are going to be in contact for the rest of the days, or actually put my foot down.
Some of the texts she says are like "are you in work tomorrow so I can come and see you"
I trust my boyfriend but I hate her for what she did to him. The thing I dont understand is WHY he does still wanna talk and see her???
So am I just being paranoid or would anybody else feel a bit weird about it too?
x
I just want to ask for some opinions really.
Would it annoy you if your NOW boyfriend or girlfriend texted their ex quite frequantly? In a real friendly mannor.
Especially if this ex hurted you're current boyfriend or girlfriend the worst way possible- by shagging someone else for quite a while before telling them.
It's happening to me at the moment and Im not sure if I should just accept that they are going to be in contact for the rest of the days, or actually put my foot down.
Some of the texts she says are like "are you in work tomorrow so I can come and see you"
I trust my boyfriend but I hate her for what she did to him. The thing I dont understand is WHY he does still wanna talk and see her???
So am I just being paranoid or would anybody else feel a bit weird about it too?
x
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I disagree, especially in this situation. The history is too weird. Thoughts that she might want him back will be racing through Naomi's head. She has a right to ask him to cut it down or out
Where did I say it was chummy chummy, I think I was quite clear that you do it cos you have to for Lenny and not for the fun of it... Whatever the reason it annoys me...
I can understand Naomi's boyfriend not wanting to text back or meet up with the girl who cheated on him, but it isn't for Naomi to decide for him. And I think you have control freak issues if you think it is tbh.
But he DOES want to still always text back and meet up etc.
Anyway, we spoke about it last night. It made me feel better that he was WILLING to stop texting her, although not happy about it. In the end I knew I would hate him to do that just for me, and would rather he did it if HE wanted to do it. If that makes sense.
So basically, hes still gonna text her but has told me if she ever tries anything on, or flirts, then it'll be a good bye forever to her. Which Im happy about.
Makes me feel better now that I haven't been a huge control freak either, by making him stop texting/seeing. I mean, he must be over the cheating by now, why else would he be willing to be friends with her after it all. So I should get over it too I guess