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Infatuation or real feelings
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How can you tell the difference between having an infatuation with someone and genuinely liking them? I think I've recently started delevoping feelings for one of my friends, but I'm not sure whether it is real or not.
I often get quite into people after having experiences with them, and it does often turn out that I didn't like them quite as much as I originally thought after all. But with this one I just really want to be near her. The weird thing is that I didn't even used to think I liked her at all. Then we kissed and it all felt different.
I often get quite into people after having experiences with them, and it does often turn out that I didn't like them quite as much as I originally thought after all. But with this one I just really want to be near her. The weird thing is that I didn't even used to think I liked her at all. Then we kissed and it all felt different.
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Don't think there's a need to put a title on it. If you like them and get butterflies and stuff, then it's all good I reckon :yes:
Course you can, but you shouldn't let that hold you back if you think you like them now.
The other possibility is that you could be taking comfort in someone you know cares about you, which could occur if it seems like no-one of the opposite sex likes you, or you've just split with a girlfriend, or any other situation where you might be feeling sorry for yourself. If this is the case, then make sure you're brutally honest with yourself and cut it out, because you'd never want to hurt your friend if you think she might have genuine feelings for you.