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I went thru a stage where I didnt mind giving them and stuff, then me and the boy had a bit of a thingy where he was texting this lass etc and I thought that he was doing stuff, anyway, I'm over that now and know he hasnt but I just cant get into giving him a BJ till he cums. I dunno why, I like do it a bit but like, not for long enough for him to cum. Part of it is I get bored, haha and like the other part is I just feel like I cant.
Any advice?
Any advice?
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You could always try a 69 to keep you entertained as well
69 is harder than karma sutra
alternate: mouth and hand
I just get to the point where I'm like, I cant carry on. I feel so crap coz I used to do it loads and I know he loves BJs
Ho hum ... there we go again ... :yeees: .. I suppose I better do it for him then? Where's he live? The things I do for people .... *sighs*
Blowjob don't have to always come first...
You can give him a handjob until he is close of coming and then start blowing...
Or you could just have sex and when he feels like he is going to come he can just bring his thing to you so you can finish him off...
I only feel like I should have to do it coz like I went thru a stage where I was doing 3 a day and enjoyed it but now I think, god. Not again.
Suzycreamcheese, I am over that but I think you could be right chick.
If a guy did that to me I wouldn't be happy. I think I'd insist the TV was turned off.
Here's an article that gives advice on giving a good one! Hope it helps
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/havingsex/performanceproblems/givinghimgoodhead
Extremley!
I must admit, it sounds to me like issues surrounding the texting of this girl. I'd say maybe a chat with your fella about it and try and dig out the cause of the problem.
Does he think youre a hooker or something.
Im not surprised youve gone off giving them. He could at least show a bit of appreciation.
I a proper bdsm relationship master/slave sometimes it can actually make the woman (bottom) feel even more like she is being used than anything else, which is the point...
Also in a non-bdsm it is very disrespectful indeed...
Nothing wrong with that!
If you dont enjoy doing something then dont do it. Thats the only advice i have.
Not sure why or who though ;o
Is 69 hard then? Ive never done it, but always thought it would be quite enjoyable!
Ive never given a blow job, but would possibly do it one day with sum1 i really trust to tell me what he likes....and not laugh at me cos i wnt know what im doing!!
Still enjoyable though!
I dont love them.
Agreed... 69 with woman on top give you the best view there is :yes: