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Confusing Men

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I have meet a bloke, we had spent the night together, but now he wants to be just friends which is fine.

But when ever we go out for a drink or to meet up we allways end up kissing.

Now the bloke in question is seeing other woman, but says he wants to be with me.

He thinks ill go running to him when he calls which I dont, then when i dont go and see him or call he get ths hump.

Why?!! Could some SANE person give me an answer?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    By the sound of it, I don't think he cares about you. He just want you to be around whenever he needs someone to fill in the gap (free time), he just need someone that is convinient (can't spell well).

    I'll just say: Forget about him, don't bother thinking about it anymore, it's just so not worth it.

    Chatbox

    [ 26-03-2002: Message edited by: Chatbox ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Men are issued with a COMPLETELY different logic book to the ones we are... don't even TRY to understand! You just need to know this guy wants to have his cake and eat it, as the saying goes, and it might be best to leave him to it. If he wants to chase you then that's up to him, but don't encourage him to arse around. Good luck <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Men are issued with a COMPLETELY different logic book to the ones we are..

    maybe some men, but not all of us!

    i really hate being used and it sounds like you are experiencing the same thing.

    don't encourage him, turn away and maybe just totally stay out of his way.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is why he acts like he does....BECAUSE HE NEEDS TO GROW UP AND TREAT PEOPLE WITH RESPECT.

    Until he does (and sad to say some blokes never do), avoid.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he goes into a huff when you don't contact him then so what...let him.
    Like everyone else has said ...He is using you.

    Does he like it if you 'have a huff' about his bad attitude...NO! so don't let him get away with it. You just have other better things to do like meeting people and being available for other better relationships with those men out there who tont pull this kind of crap.

    You know he's bad for you, you know he's expecting it all... leave him to get on with it and don't let his bad attitude poison your bright life!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello u Just move on what the point on wasting your time and energy.I bet the minute you find some one he will be so intrested but to late MATE null <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok i swear i replied to this - whers my post gone? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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