Mystery Hickie :o(

Former Member · July 2001

Hey Guys,

Jst a few opinions wanted here really.

Iv recently started seeing this guy, and im really into him.. his parents are away at the moment and on friday night i went round there and everything was great.

On saturday nite i had to work <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> so i didnt go round but a few others did.

Then last night (sun) me, him and loads of our mates went out to the pub,and one of my mates noticed this HUGE hickie on his neck.

Its not from me, as i personally hate the things.

He got really angry with all the lads for jokin about it and gave this explanation...wat u reckon guys? Is he lyin or tellin the truth as i dont know wat to believe.

He said that the hickie is from a girl could Michelle. She hangs around in our group sometimes, and i dont really get on with her.. shes a bit of a moody bitch!

Anyway, 'apparently' she invited herself round, dan had had a few drinks and was really tired so he went up to bed.. he then 'apparently' woke up to find her sucking his neck and pushed her off, then went back to sleep.

I dont know wat to believe but i just have my doubts... i know its probably nothing, and im only 'seeing' him anyway, so i dont really have the right to complain..

Its just the thought of him doin anything with her makes me feel sick.. she really annoys me!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> Hes done 'stuff' with her before.. wats stopping him now..

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Sad Lucy xxxx

Former Member · July 2001

I think you should give him a chance.

if he keeps coming up with excuses like this then do sumat about it,
But i dont think theres nething to worry about just yet!

Former Member · July 2001

Hope your right.... he just went sooo wierd last night once i knew. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> Should really fone him and ask him about it.. but i jst dont want to talk to him at the mo.

Sad Lucy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">

xxx

Former Member · July 2001

try not to stress about it!

And i wouldnt phone him about it, bring it up in the convo, else he'll know how much u bin worryin about it!

Let me know wot happens

Former Member · July 2001

I think maybe I'd forget about it and not worry or anything, but then if another one suddenly appears then I'd have to think about whether he was being honest in the first place.

One of Heaven's lil Angels <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angel.gif">

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Former Member · July 2001

Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
this is really freaky coz before me and my boyf got back, he got of with well...one of my friends and she gave him a huge 1 on his neck, he told me it was just some girl! Then i heard it going about and confronted him, he admitted it and she denied it of course! I know its not exactly like your situation but thats not the point same sort of thing! I just forgave my boyf even though i felt abit hurt! And the spooky thing is the girls name is Michelle to! ]
Love Miss_Kxxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.mpz.co.uk/cwm/otn/funny/fruit.gif">

Former Member · July 2001

Oh my god!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">

Michelles ... urgh ... (No offence to any nice michelles that may be on the site!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">)

Well.. i didnt actually ask him about it..i saw him last night and jokingly went "Hows ur hickie dan?!" and he just got a bit moody and went "Urgh dont start"

I think im just gunna forget about it... or try to.., im still not sure if i believe him, and im not really happy about her being in his room while his sleeping... but its too much hassle to argue about it and i just cant be arsed.

If i do find another one tho... then there will be trouble!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">

Thanx for the advice guys!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> Lxxx

Former Member · July 2001

hope he's not using you Lucy (bit early to jump to conclusions though!)

ignore it this first time - he was "under the influence" so to speak, plus he's a guy and if they find a girl in an up-for-it mood, well . . . but if it happens again give him the third degree!

does he think you're a couple or have you only gone out a couple of times? he might have different ideas to you.

but be optimistic for the moment <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

Confidence is the feeling you sometimes have before you fully understand the situation.
- Anon

Former Member · July 2001

sounds like he's more interested in u than his hickie lucy, wouldn't worry about it

Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif">

Mystery Hickie :o(

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