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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey guys!

Ok, well, me and my boyfriend spend almost every evening together and most of the weekend hanging around with each other. Almost all our spare time is spent together and we have been together for a year now and love each other very much! Sometimes I worry we see too much of each other, but when we aren't together I miss him, so I guess if its working out fine then there is no point changing it!

However on Sat I am off to Scotland with my college and I am starting to get really nervous about it coz I am scared he's gonna forget about me or decide that he has a better time on his own or with his mates. Now I am only going for a week, so I am totally over reacting as usual and I really need to get a grip! lol! Its just we have never been apart for more than two days b4!

So, what do u think? Am I being really stupid or do u reckon maybe he could fall out of love with me if we are apart for this week??? Mmmm, actually I think I know the answer...oh well, at least tell me how I am going totally over the top!

Thanks!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if anything this time apart will make him realise how much he misses you and enjoys being in ur company therefore making things even better for when u get bak
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I doubt very much that he'd forget you, if you spend all your spare time together then he's bound to miss you like crazy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    One of Heaven's lil Angels <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angel.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~*Heaven Scent*~:
    I doubt very much that he'd forget you, if you spend all your spare time together then he's bound to miss you like crazy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    I agree wit this! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he'll probs just miss ya

    always a worry though when you attached like that and forget about your friends

    i always put my mates before my girlfriend and expect her to do the same, purely because of you lose your mates and then split with your girl (which happens more often than you'd like to think) then you're left with sweet fuck all <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, I know this isn't what the thread's really about but I suggest that you make sure you see your friends more often as it is shit when something does happen and you've binned em off for your fella!
    Regarding you going away though, I think that he'll inevitably really miss you. After a year together and spending all of his time with you it's highly unlikely he'll forget you!
    Try and have a really good week with your friends though, it's really important!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, me and my mates hang around together in college, when my bf is in work so I wouldnt say I neglect them! They all have bf's too! I'd rather spend time with him tho, my friends have never really understood me anyway, they all like different things to me! lol

    About this trip, thing is, it isnt with my mates, its with one of my classes, which is kinda small and I aint really built up any really good friendships with any of them since I have only known them a short time! I am quite friendly with one of the guys as he was in school with me, but I dont wanna get too friendly with him incase he gets the wrong idea!

    I am a bit sad about going, part of my wants to go, but the other part would rather stay at home with my bf and make sure he doesnt get too used to being without me! lol

    Oh well....keep posting!
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