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should i 4get about him??
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me & my m8 have bin friends since primary skool, and although we've had or differences, we've always manages 2 stay freinds. BUT..she recently told me that she really likes my f, and she sed that if i woz a decent m8 id finish him and let her have him instead! theres def. no way id finish him 4 her...but how do i get do make her feel ok bout me goin out wid him???
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there's a clear answer to your mate's ideas, which is for heaven's sake don't break up with him so she can go out with him! what a shallow, horrible thing to suggest! how old is she, out of interest?
frankly she'll just have to be comfortable about you going out with him. there's nothing she can do. and not much you can do either. but make time for her, so you see her at weekends without him, and talk about other things than him (occasinally!). don't let her feel left out. you could even set her up with a friend of his.
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If this is right then I think she's out of order, even if she is your friend. I'd say don't listen to her and tell her to accept that you're with him.
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Cheeky bitch! Give her a slap!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
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find out what he wants - he should say he wants you, then get him to spell it out to your mate
it's not about who owns the guy, it's about who he likes the most and so would have the best relationship with...as he's with you that's a pretty good sign <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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Yea you're right forget the fighting...this time lol. I just can't believe the cheek of your so called friend.
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