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Kinky stuff.
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Hello, I was pleasently surprised by all the posts on here about people who try or are into kinky stuff. Its something I really wanted to try when I meet the right guy. .
Do any of you get any negative remarks from friends or family about it, thats if their made aware of it somehow? :wave:
Ps: I don't mean to be personal.
Do any of you get any negative remarks from friends or family about it, thats if their made aware of it somehow? :wave:
Ps: I don't mean to be personal.
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So guess he knows I do kinky stuff, but don't think he care much as is is really open-minded and well it doesn't have anyting to do with our friendship anyway...
But as a general rules, I think there is kinky stuff that are better kept in the couple as other views on it might not be objective as they might not understand the concept of alternative way of having sex as their own...
Or if you need to talk about it, I think forums are a good alternative as most people in forums you don't know in real life, so their judgement can't affect you too much...
Why would you talk to your family anyway about kinky sex anyway?
And I never meant to pry into peoples personal lives, I just wondered how much of a taboo it was still considered. :wave:
things you buy...like vibrators or sexy underwear. Different locations or unusual positions. Bondage! any unusual foreplay
It depends really because what is kinky to one couple is just normal to the other.
I don't think I have really done anything kinky tbh, but maybe to other people i have :chin:
cheeky maybe. At the end of the day, you never know unless you ask.
Some of my friends know due to finding things (toys, ropes, chains etc...)in the house or have given me link to site for info or to buy things. Some of co-workers know from convos or over hearing phonecalls to girlfriend. I know girlfriends Anutie know and is sending a bag full of restraints, harness, chains, poles etc... that she brought and never got the chance to use. what make me laugh is she thinks i currupted her niece (as if, she was my little fallen angle when i meet her).
I wouldn't say it's a big secret for me, but the more a person talked about it the more I'd be inclined to think they were just a big show-off and/or stretching the truth a bit. It can be interesting to talk about it with some mates, hear different perspectives etc, but it can be a bit creepy hearing about other people's down and dirty activities... it's not a topic I bring up very often, anyway
I think I'd want the ground to open up and swallow me if my mother ever found out.
erm, dunno that I consider anal "kinky" - I'd say that was possibly rude? Depends on the girl.
Would the girl be rude if she asked you for anal the first time?
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