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Why cant my mum just go to hell!!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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my mum is sooooo annoting, she is insisting on me moving all my revision notes to another place, i said i will do it later on in the week cause its my half term and at the end of the week i will organise. she has a home business and people come in and out, not very ofteb though, and she says it looks bad, but its been there for 3 months already and i am asking for one more week, i shouted at her cause she is such a silly cow and she through all my notes which were all in oreder around the room, i mean what the fuck is wrong with her, she is fucking crazy. and i was virtually going to hit her cause she was pissing me off so much, and she said if i lay one finger she would call the police, like i would hit her, but i was really angry. why did she do that, thats gonna take me like a day to organise it again. she is the mosty stubborn person u will ever meet and the dumbest. i have no respect for her cause she had an affair, and only i know about it. i wish she would just die!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, tough position. It's unfair of her to burden you with a secret like that, maybe if u want to get back at her you could spread the secret.

    But maybe a better alternative would be to keep your temper, at least on the outside. When she asks you to do something, even if it pisses you off inside just do it. If it's unfair, don't fly off the handle and start screaming at her, explain in a voice that is not patronising that you cannot do it because...

    with reference to your notes, that was a fucking stupid of her and completely unfair. Studying for exams is hard enough already, it doesn't not need stupid people messing up notes or messing around with you in anyway. And BTW, well done on having all ur notes in order <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; I never did, but still got through my IGCSEs alright.

    Good luck and keep calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
    I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know how you feel Chris! I bet when you had a go at her for throwing your notes around the room she tried to make you out to be the person in the wrong. "It's our age"

    Its a mothers duty to make their childs life hell <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    On my 18th birthday yesterday she was mithering me to take some pictures up to my grans. I said I would take them later.

    Anyway, about an hour later she rang my mobile and I just let it ring cause I knew what she wanted me for. I ignored it. She rang the house a minute later, then my mobile, then the house, then my mobile etc etc for about 3 hours. Could have been longer.

    She left countless text messages on my mobile and the house phone saying my gran is going mad and wants the pictures straight away.

    Eventually me and Emma walked around to my grans with the pictures and she said "where have you been?" I just said sorry we've been shopping in Manchester (A little white lie). My gran was fine about it and took the pictures off me and made a drink for me and Emma.

    My mum phoned me while I was at my grans and she was going mad at me for not taking the pictures around earlier. She was saying your gran wasn't happy and allthis crap. But my gran wasn't really bothered. My mumjust loves to have a moan at me for the slightest thing and make it into a big thing andshe wonders why I get anattitude with her.

    She doesn't give me 2 minutes peace in any one day!

    She was even worse on Sunday when me and Emma were trying to get to know each other better. She'd shout me every 2 mins to help her with something. It was silly things like holding a bin bag open while she put stuff in it. Things that she could manage on her own.

    When I'm happy she tries her best to make me miserable! 9 times out of 10 she does. All my friends think she's great cause she's the perfect mumwhen my friends are around.

    OK none of this makes sense...oh well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That is soooo true, i feel like that, if she is in a good mood, she always compliments me, but i know its just cause she is happy cause she got some money off my dad or something. then if she is in a bad mood she has a massivr go at me, and she doesnt care, she just goes on at me until i wanna kill her. people dont understand why i slag her off all the time, cause all the girls say she is always upbeat, yeh well its all fake. she is a right cow the rest of the time. she says i answer back but thats cause she always does things the hard way, and then when she realises she is wrong she quickly changes the subject (happens alot) fuck her thats all i can say, in the no sexual way
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's parents who have the mood swings, not teenagers!

    So don't worry about it chris, she probably has a lot to deal with at the moment and is just a bit stressed. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
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