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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I recently went too far too soon with my (now ex) boyfriend. We didn't have sex or anything but we went pretty far and now I'm worried that it might put other guys off me, since he quickly went round telling everyone how easy I was. So any blokes out there - if a girl you know got intimate with a loser, would it put you off her?

Thanx ladz

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It wouldn't put me off. Basically you've finished with him and you didn't go all the way so thats not easy at all!

    I wouldn't worry about it at all!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it is quite sad that these days we have to worry about what our ex's will say to their mates. You have finished with him, and he should finish with you. From the sounds of things, it was a passing attraction to each other. Oh well, shit happens.

    In reference to your questions, I don't listen to popular opinion of people alllll that much. I am usually aware of that opinion, but yeah.

    I got a tad pissed when I read Whizzy's (i think it was newa) post saying that she'll go for a guy based on what it can do for her rep...i'm sorry, but that is just fucking sad.

    Yeah, not sure if it answered your q. Ohw ell.
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol... nah no1 cares really.. u should just take the piss outta him more....

    But reps, u do get a lot of ppl hangin round n lookin up 2 u if u got a big rep...
    I kinda like my rep.. couldnt deal with it being bigger tho.. still in the in crowd... n we got life a lot easier than other ppl I know that rnt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just say you and yer mates were having a bet on who could find get as jiggy as possible wid da worlds biggest loser (How did you manage to overlook me?)

    Nah, try not to be to cruel but use all the lines like "He did nothing for me" or whatever applies. I don't know what i'm going on here.

    I wouldn't fret about it. If guys think yer easy you most likeley gonna get more attention, just make sure you ain't so easy next time!!

    As long as you don't get a diploma from some guys giving you the letters S,L,AG after your name... thats bad! Also sexist and unfair, guys that are basically slags are praised in most cases... its all sad really and no-ones business.
    Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well said Insane...and far less nonsensical than my post. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awwww I think I've made a friend!!
    Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
    I'm the rest!!

    [This message has been edited by Insane (edited 10-02-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Insane:
    Awwww I think I've made a friend!!


    Who would that be then?
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If anyone is worthy of somebody like you they will know just by talking to you that you are not the kind of person who lies on a bed saying 'next'.

    You're a smart person, you can weed out those kinda jerks who might try to take advantage of u no problem. We arn't all stupid, give someone worthy the privalage of being with you, good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If anyone is worthy of somebody like you they will know just by talking to you that you are not the kind of person who lies on a bed saying 'next'.

    You're a smart person, you can weed out those kinda jerks who might try to take advantage of u no problem. We arn't all stupid, give someone worthy the privalage of being with you, good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awwwwwww thanks everyone! I feel loads better now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I just needed a bit of reassuring, so thank you all you lovely lovely people - you made me happy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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