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I fear the girl dont like me
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I have liked this girl for months, and we are really good friends. And recently i told her that i really liked her. Her excuse was that she had to much work on but would like a relationship. Althiough she aint being clear if she actually likes me. she sends me kinky txt messages, but i dont know where i stand. she said that boys and work dont mix for her and we are stressed by all these coursework deadlines. I dont know what to do, do i demand an answer or do i leave it for a while?
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My advive would be to stay close to her, but not toooo close lest she decides that you are "too valuable as a friend". As you walk out of your last exam, ask her out...or, well, summin like that newa.
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
To be honest that just sounds like a nice way to let u down n not loose u as a friend. Mayb u shopuld ask her out proper but it might make things a bit more awkward between u
Or that might be jumping the gun a little... but stay close as Turtle said, and try to find out where you stand, if it looks good then go for it!
Oh and regarding the last message, you shouldn't rush into sex, for silly reasons, and besides I only made them up on the spot.
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
bit rich coming from you mate!! j/k...but still, you get the idea...
as far as txt's go...um..."fuck me bitch?"...no...too sensitive :P
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
"Fuck me bitch" is far too sentimental you want something a bit more kinky than that.
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
She txt me saying that i had told this other girl, named robyn, that i liked robyn. She asked the the previous night if i liked her and i said no, and that is true. So she accused me of lying. I then sent a txt message saying thst is a load of crap. I phoned robyn and asked why she said that. She denied it, and im good mates with her so i dont know why she would lie, but she has been known to lie alot. So after i called her she phoned the girl i want "jess" saying why u tell him that. actually she didnt talk to her she tried to get through but she couldnt. i phoned jess this morning saying that it is total crap and that she was lying. Jess then told me that it wanst robyn who told her it was both there friends lisa. Robyn told lisa that i said to her that i fancied her, which is a lie, lisa then told jess. i pleaded with her saying that i dont wanna lose our friendship and stuff. She was abit blank when i spoke to her, but i hopefully am going out with her tomoz so maybe i can sought it out then, this is too stressful. and to make it worse, this kinda thing has happened between robyn and jess before, so i think she may be more pissed off with robyn than me, well hopefully. This may prove that she does like me, and she also told her friend that she liked me in that way, but i dont know who to believe at the momoent.
U can read this again if u didnt get it the forst time, anyway, ill keep u posted!
but these ones sound like little bitches to me, all shit stirring and gossiping about each other, youd never get away with it,
theyd all be tellin each other an dramatising it x100.