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Too Much Love Will Kill You
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I guess loving someone too much can kill off a relationship dead <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">. Yesterday my dearly loved girlfriend walked out on me with a look in her eye telling me we'd not see each other. It's been a struggle for me to let someone so close to as I'm struggling to fight an illness I've had for the last year. I would do anything asked of me (even let her go <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">) I always said I'd be there as long as I was needed or wanted I just hoped it would have been longer than it was. It would be easier if I could hate her but I can't I truly thought we were soulmates I believed she thought we were to. I just lover her ever so much and always will do and am so sorry for loving her so much that it killed "US" and tore us appart.
Sorry for rambling on, just wanted to get out how I felt.. sorry
SS
When Asked If That's You, Pretend It Isn't You & See What Happens
~Winnie-The-Pooh on practising the art of disguise~
Sorry for rambling on, just wanted to get out how I felt.. sorry
SS
When Asked If That's You, Pretend It Isn't You & See What Happens
~Winnie-The-Pooh on practising the art of disguise~
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That's so sad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> . Did she tell you it was because of the love? Did she tell you it was definately over forever? Don't give up, I believe there's more than just the one person for us out there & even if there isn't, you probably just haven't met yours yet.
Take care & welcome to thesite
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
i feel for you really i do, but also for your girlfriend too. i know how it feels to be loved too much, it happened to me awhile ago. my boyfriend adored me and would just do anything for me. at first it was cute the way he didn't care about anything but me and wanted to be by my side 24/7. but after awhile it got annoying. i'm an independant person and his constant adoration did start to get to me after awhile, i just needed some space. don't get me wrong i loved the guy, i just couldn't stand being molycoddled all the while. in the end it tore us apart which is a shame coz we were really good together for a time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
i'm not blaming you and it must be really hard, but you will get over this and maybe it will have taught you a valuable lesson for the future.
take care babe and remember theres thousands more girls out there!
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
Some girls have no idea what a great guy is! did youread the niceguy or bad devious guy post? Maybe she thought you was too nice or something.
Maybe she wasn't used to being loved so much. Take care mate and I hope you find somebody who will appreciate the love you have to give!
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Some girls take us guys for granted, but there aren't that many like you! I was kind of in the same situation as you when my fianceé dumped me, but you can read about that in another post, I'm fed up with typing it! (And everyone else is fed up of reading it)
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
just 2 last points, thanks again to you all for your kind support.
and I'm sorry to my love for my smothering ways, alienating you was never my intention
SS
When Asked If That's You, Pretend It Isn't You & See What Happens
~Winnie-The-Pooh on practising the art of disguise~
i'd go out with you babe! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
You are such a sweet guy (If a may say so), I think Harry should use this guy as a role model!!
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
i love ur sig too!! i's got all the Winnie The Pooh books, hes my bestest bear of very little brain <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
i like "an ambush is a sort of surprise. so is a gorse-bush sometimes" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
help me but dont tell me to deny it, i done wrong and i wanna suffer for my sins.
©lovely freaks
"this writing business. pencils and whatnot. overated, if you ask me. silly stuff. nothing in it."
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
im really sorry to hear about that. its horrible when relationships break up, even if you both want it. so i cant imagine what it would be like if you thought everything was okay and it was unexpected and you didnt want it to happen.
maybe it isnt the end.. just be there for her if she needs you and try to sort of keep your distance and not be so intense in demonstrating your love, and she may realise how much she misses you and reconsider.
if not, you'll get through this, time is a great healer and you will find someone else. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
they fall in love and are scared because they love you that they may endup getting hurt themselves,
im really sorry that this has happened to you as im am very sure u r a ver nice guy with a lot of love to give and a big heart,
dont let this put you off being in another relationship, obviously its going to take time to get over this, if it definitely is over, but when ur ready you will someone, im sure of it
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