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my ex (again)
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my ex is being so horrible to me, i don't know what to do. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
it's lke being back at primary school again where i was bullied all the time. He's bringing his new girlfriend into college next week, just so that he can rub it in my face and i was just speaking to one of my friends who said this -
i don't know why this makes me upset. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> probably because of my past when i used to get bullied a lot because i was fat. Now i am really paranoid that im fat and i hate him because he knows how much it hurts me when someone says something like that, but he doesn't care.
So for the past hour iv been crying about that and re-living the painful events of my childhood. Also, i don't want his girlfriend to come down.
It just feels like i can't get away from it. everywhere i go, it her or him or them. This girl coming down here to my college is just going to be the pits. She wil be there laghing at me, i mean fuck i don't even want to go to school anymore.
I just wish they would both leave me alone. I just want to get on with my life. I just want them to both move away so i can get on with my life.
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Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
it's lke being back at primary school again where i was bullied all the time. He's bringing his new girlfriend into college next week, just so that he can rub it in my face and i was just speaking to one of my friends who said this -
rob mentioned you, he was playing this really high note on his guitar and said that it sounded like a fat birds thong snapping.
holly asked him how he knew? and he replied that he had gone out with you
i don't know why this makes me upset. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> probably because of my past when i used to get bullied a lot because i was fat. Now i am really paranoid that im fat and i hate him because he knows how much it hurts me when someone says something like that, but he doesn't care.
So for the past hour iv been crying about that and re-living the painful events of my childhood. Also, i don't want his girlfriend to come down.
It just feels like i can't get away from it. everywhere i go, it her or him or them. This girl coming down here to my college is just going to be the pits. She wil be there laghing at me, i mean fuck i don't even want to go to school anymore.
I just wish they would both leave me alone. I just want to get on with my life. I just want them to both move away so i can get on with my life.
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Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
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what can i say? not a lot, i'm sorry.
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
i know its hard, but try not to let his comments get to you. they were just said for effect in a bitter kind of way to gain him some kind of "respect" with the people around him. i don tknow why, slagging off an ex like that is just nasty and not gonna win you any friends, not for the right reasons anyway.
you dont need him anymore, you're better off without him from what i can tell, he sounds like a right bastard. ignore this new girlfriend of his, either be nice to her and polite if you have to, otherwise try and steer clear as it'll only upset you. let them see how you can rise above his silly taunting and bitching, and that nothing he can say or do will upset you. then if you need to come home and punch a few pillows imagining him or his girlfriend on them, and come and vent on here if you need to <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
your ex sounds really immature and probably a lot more but it will take up too much space here! hehe...
sometimes bad childhood memories can haunt us again when it's reminded. we all have them im sure, some worse than others. but learn to cope with them and look at you now...ur a much better person and ur the one who made it through at the end of the day. so what if u were fat then? and so so what if u still are? the most percious beauty is not shown...it's inside you in the heart. it's what makes u so special. and if people don't see that...well...F**k them. they don't deserve u. u only deserve what's good enough for u. and ur ex really doesn't deserve such a great person like u.
they wanna see u upset...don't let them whatever u do. show them ur a strong person because you are. u went through such horrible childhood experiences and ur still here so u must be! besides, do u really wanna give them the satisfaction of seeing u upset? no way. you see them...you smile and walk proudly past and don't look back. they'll be looking after u with mouths open! i bet after doing that...you'll be feeling on top of the world nothing is better than standing up for urself!
and then u can really live your life!!
"Live for today"... thats my rule
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
sorry thats just my personal opinion on it at the moment.
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
Men can b such wankers, but then again so can their new girlfriends. The only thing that u can do is hold your head up and say that u deserve better anyway. I no it must b hard but is he worth all the crap u r feeling?I bet he aint!
I dont wanna slate your friends or anything but do u think it was right of your friend to tell u that? Personally I no that when my friends tell me things I could go without knowing and its gonna hurt me, I think to myself thanx for telling me. Your friend must have known it would hurt u and I just wonder why they tell u knowing that. I wouldnt tell my friend if her ex had said something horrible. She dont need to no and at the end of the day wat u dont no cant hurt u. Just a thought <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Way to go Karla. That's an excellant idea. It'll drive him crazy & make her paranoid lol.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
Neway he's still doing it, callin me fat, ugly, says i have a horrible body and calls me a bitch. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I know it sounds horrible, but i just wish he would move away. I can't put up with his immaturity and now this gurl is comin in 2moro. That'll b fun. NOT.
I would be nice to this girl, but there is a lot of stuf - she dontlike me coz of all the stories that hes told her, and she was the one that he cheated on me with
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.