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BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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Right heres the deal:

When I was 15 I met this girl, she was fit, cool to be with, blah blah blah. We lost our virginity together. had holidays, it was great! we even got engaged

2 years 4 months later...

It messed up coz I got depressed and started having fits, and while I was at home having fit after fit of uncontrolable shaking, she went out clubbing and met several other guys.

My dilemma, I'm not exactly the going out type, due to a low income, I can't afford to. But, after that relationship I felt I'd wait for another long meaningful relationship.

But my sex drive is peaking and sayin go out and meet many girls live life!!

However my true nature and my conscience tells me I want a relationship. Every club girl I've met so far ain't interested for more than 5 mins, and without a relationship I don't feel ready for sex.

Does anybody have any thoughts and opinions on what I should do?

As a side note, I'm 4 months away from finishing at college. Then I plan to get a job so I'll have better income, so I can go out more and meet someone.

Should I spend what little cash I do get now and get out there!!
Or wait and hope foolishly for a relationship.

Do I sound insecure??
Post your opinions or let me know if anyone else has these dilemas. Thanks

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, this is a problem, however, being in pretty much the same situation, just carry on how you are, I know the idea of getting jiggy with copius amounts of hot females (be back in a minute Im just going to..... get some.... milk) ok Im back, what fun that was. um just plod on and you will be fine. i cant afford it at the moment. Im almost on top of my a-level exams, and Im taking a year out to save for university. until then its not going to bother me. but i intend to have the time of my life when I get there. just be patient dude. trust me everything will be ok.

    dk
    I never said I loved you...
    However I will fuck you...
    until someone better comes along!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would wait till i finish college. why splash out the money you have just cuz u have a high sex drive?? i don't even know why guys have that...!!
    sex in a relationship will be much better i reckon and as u said, u do want a relationship. and going out clubbing will not guarantee you getting a woman! getting into relationships needs time and it's not done in one night!
    relationships come in its own time. no point in looking one when it will come looking for you. enjoy life now and finish the 4 months and get a job...
    besides, just after a breakup, are u sure u really ready for another relationship or are u just looking a replacement u have lost?
    sometimes leaving some time in between is good. you think things through and be able to think more clearly.
    ad for the girl...she's a loser.
    you'll find someone much better!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Having a sex drive is part of human existance, it is the reason we multiply but it is not a reason for you to empty the contents of your wallet. If you find your drive at a peak without anyone to share it with yes, it could get annoying but that's what masturbation's for, it may not be as sensual or special is sex with someone you love, but that's what a relationship is for.

    It's obvious you don't feel comfortable with going out and playing with every woman you can find so why try an force it? Keep your money in your pocket and your willy in your pants until you feel comfortable, then you'll be happy, good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    koncentrate on finishing college and getting a jood job and then start on the relationship front.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Apparently woman hit their peak when there like 40 or something,

    god im gonna have to find a younger guy cos ill be a right shagaholic lol no old man will keep up wiv me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I agree with monkey (i think it was him) dont go n spend all your money on getting a shag, its not that important you always have ur hand or any objects youd like to use, im sure monkey will recommend you some <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Anyway im off downstairs to get the pepper mill lmfao <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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