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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
Ive been out with my friends and there is this guy he is really nice, being around him made me feel so relaxed,and we both enjoyed each others company!He's been phoning&texting me all night and day!BUT thing is one of my friends is suppose to meeting him and i know she really likes him,and im meant to be on a date with his friend who i dont really know!It ended up she was talking to my date and i was all over hers!She didnt really notice but i could feel a click!I told him abut me going to have a baby, he didnt bother he just treated me the same!Which was great!The only thing stopping us getting together is our friends we dontr want to hurt them!I dont want to risk going with this guy then losing one of my friends!But how do i tell her i really like the guy she likes? I know i must sound like a bit of a tart so sorry!
Some one help!!
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    grizzly, by the sounds of it your friend's realised you like this guy, as you ended up "swapping" dates so to speak!! before you go ahead with anything with this bloke, have a quick word with her and ask if she minds, if she does mind then keep your distance, blokes arent worth losing good friends over! but hopefully she'll realise that you really get on well and wont be too hurt or anything <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    and you dont sound like a tart at all! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    R u not gonna get back with your ex then (father of baby?)? Sorry just wondering coz u posted about maybe getting back with him too?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ur gonna b havin a baby soon, so shouldnt u b plannin 4 that and not worry with gettin a nother boyf! as 4 this lad who ses it dont matter or wot eva, how old is he, cause he prob dosnt realise how serious the situation is.
    and ur hormones r prob running wild so b careful.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alright, i never said this one that post when you were on about finding boys again, but i figure i should say it now..
    you chose to have this child, therefore you chose the responsibility with it. and woah boy is havin a kid a responsibility. now your child comes first, and guys have to take the back seat. plus the relationships you have, will affect your child. a child is primarily socialised in the home, and you have to remember this.
    im not saying that it isnt possible to have relationships, im just saying that your child is what matters right now. you made the choice here. plus child=commitment for guys too, they cant mess around. this guy has to be set straight.
    right now isnt the best time for a relationship or anything. you have to have priorities. plus the whole hormone thing like lolly said.
    sucks huh? but its worth it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    alright, i never said this one that post when you were on about finding boys again, but i figure i should say it now..
    you chose to have this child, therefore you chose the responsibility with it. and woah boy is havin a kid a responsibility. now your child comes first, and guys have to take the back seat. plus the relationships you have, will affect your child. a child is primarily socialised in the home, and you have to remember this.
    im not saying that it isnt possible to have relationships, im just saying that your child is what matters right now. you made the choice here. plus child=commitment for guys too, they cant mess around. this guy has to be set straight.
    right now isnt the best time for a relationship or anything. you have to have priorities. plus the whole hormone thing like lolly said.
    sucks huh? but its worth it.

    Really well said Ickle.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea I back that too, except it wernt me who mentioned the hormones...but beleive me they play a massive part lmao.
    I think u definatly have to think where your priorities lie, finding another bloke right now shouldnt really be your main one.
    Personally Id worry about a bloke who was ready to take on my child so readilly, I mean u have to consider why someone so young would want the responsability...I dunno just a thought.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lolly:
    Yea I back that too, except it wernt me who mentioned the hormones...but beleive me they play a massive part lmao.
    I think u definatly have to think where your priorities lie, finding another bloke right now shouldnt really be your main one.
    Personally Id worry about a bloke who was ready to take on my child so readilly, I mean u have to consider why someone so young would want the responsability...I dunno just a thought.

    lol, sorry helly, i guess i just relate lolly and hormones right now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    lol, sorry helly, i guess i just relate lolly and hormones right now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    WAT U TRYING TO SAY?MY HORMONES R FLYING ALL OVER THE PLACE???? Lmao just a little pregnant humour <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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