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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Right heres the deal

ive just split up with my g/f, we been together for ohh about a month. she broke up with me for, well i really dont know, she says she duno either why she cant go out with me anymore. she keeps telling me we gona look after each other. she keeps telling me she loves me, but i dont believe her, how can a person who loves u dump you? when we was going out she'd hardly ever be upset but now every single little thing sets her off. wheather its me being upset and saying i dont believe she loves me, or because im not being mean to her and calling her a bitch. she seems to think she is a total bitch for messing me around and stuff.

so i was wondering, y does she say/do this, does she want me back? does she hate me? what can i do about this cos its tearing me apart i really duno what to do no more. can anyone give me their point of view. id really want her back, but i doubt shed want me. sorry if this vauge just ask any Q's and i'll answer them. Thank you for your time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lonely-in-life:
    . how can a person who loves u dump you?


    I love David (turtle), but I can't be with him because we live so far away from eachother. One day it might come to the point where we'll love eachother so much that we'll split up because of it.

    Maybe she loves you so much that she's scared to go on. The only way you'll ever find out is by sitting down with her and talking.

    good luck

    *Tara*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its pretty hard for us to talk cos one of us always gets upset or stroppy so its kinda hard to get answers out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    of course u can stil luv sum1 when u broke up with them.

    Wen i broke up with my bf i stil luved him, but i knew it was wrong that we were going out because we were avin too many arguements, amongst other things! but i stil luved him even after we broke up because we were 2gether for 1 1/2 years and luv just dont go away overnite.

    Maybe she feels lonely, and after shes just broken up with u, she needs sum 2 fil da gap. Bcoz u were close, she probably turns 2 u , even tho its the wrong thing to do bcoz u r directly involved.

    Just try to get on with ur life, she dont know shes hurtin u, she probably just lonely. Just be a friend, but try not to get bak 2gether with her, even if she comes on strong. After all, she broke up wiv u 4 a reason.

    Sorry if that sounds harsh, i didn't mean it to be, but i sounded a lot like ur gf dus when i first broke up wiv my bf
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    id be inclined to agree with what drifter said. i loved my boyfriend, id been with him for 16 months, and yet it wasnt working ou t, we were arguing, he was annoying me, so i ended it. i wasnt in love with towards the end i dont think, as the feeling was definitely different, i realised that again recently <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">. it just wasnt working, so it was the right thing to do to end it, but i still loved him afterwards and got well jealous when he got a new girlriend and said i wnted him back and stuff, even thuogh i knew i didnt really.

    so yeah, id agree with what drifter said i think.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thing is she dont know why she dumped me, she has no reason and cant think of one. i really wana ignore her but its hard to. like not ignore her but be left alone. its just real hard cos she aint given me a reason for anything cos she 'dont know.
    L-I-L
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i was 17, there was this lad who was really nice, and he fancied me loads and would do anything for me. SO i agreed to go out with him. However, and this is personal choice, he was too nice, he was like my brother, always looking out for me, would drop his mates for me, anything i wanted he would do for me, in the end i had to end the relationship for fear of hurting him in the future. THe nicey stuff was sweet, but i feel in time it would have drove me up the wall. Even now, we are like bro and sis. And i know what i did was for the best. So please don't take her actions personally..i'm not taking sides, and i do beleive she still thinks the world of you.
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