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I'm being ignored now
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Hi, thanx to everyone who helped me when I posted a lil while ago about a guy I was 'seeing' and didn't fancy.
Right...so update, I told him I wanted to be friends, we were friends before we started sleeping together so i thought we could go back to friendship, he seemed a bit upset because as far as he was concerned it was the "start of a meaningful realtionship."
So now he doesn't pick up his phone to me and won't answer my texts, if he does its like two/three word answers if that. I've seen him in person once since and he was ok but had a bit of a go at me.
Now I just feel a bit lost because I really thought we'd be able to go back to how we were before, he used to be really fun to be around.
My other friends who now him too say he's just trying to cut ties so he can over me (but there wasn't really anything to get over in the first place...well at least not from my point of you). I want him to be happy and everything but I miss our friendship.
Should I just leave him alone now? I'm sure to bump into him around town and we have mutual friends, how is that going to work?
Just wondered if anyone had been in a similar situation and what they did.
Right...so update, I told him I wanted to be friends, we were friends before we started sleeping together so i thought we could go back to friendship, he seemed a bit upset because as far as he was concerned it was the "start of a meaningful realtionship."
So now he doesn't pick up his phone to me and won't answer my texts, if he does its like two/three word answers if that. I've seen him in person once since and he was ok but had a bit of a go at me.
Now I just feel a bit lost because I really thought we'd be able to go back to how we were before, he used to be really fun to be around.
My other friends who now him too say he's just trying to cut ties so he can over me (but there wasn't really anything to get over in the first place...well at least not from my point of you). I want him to be happy and everything but I miss our friendship.
Should I just leave him alone now? I'm sure to bump into him around town and we have mutual friends, how is that going to work?
Just wondered if anyone had been in a similar situation and what they did.
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I have learned my lesson about this, and it has ruined the friendship completely.
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be pleasant. say hi. ask what he's been up to, or what he's doing at the weekend. then leave him to it. you can be friendly, you just can't be friends. not while he's still pining after you.