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sex with a new partner - him going soft!!
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I have got very close to a male friend of mine over the last couple of months, although we liked each other we ignored it and just enjoyed each others company as i was in a relationship.
anyway, i ended my long term relationship as i was unhappy, and me and this friend got closer, we kinda started dating but we didnt sleep together as i wanted more time to get over my relationship, anyway after a couple of weeks about 9 i think, we decided to sleep together.
i thought great, and the passion between us had been building up for weeks between us, and it was tense to say the least.
anyway the time came, and there is both of us thinking all is fine.......... then he went soft!!! :eek:
Not something i have experience b4, and i think he was
embarassed to say the least!! i said ok thats cool we will just go chill for abit and see what happens later in the evening, he went real cold on me afterwards, so i took him home, this was a couple of days ago and although he has phoned and txted me, i seem to be the one doing all the chasing.
i feel really bad, and i dont know if he has gone off me or if it was just cos he is still embarrassed. has anyone else had this happen??
if so is there anything i can do to make him feel better.
sorry its so long.
anyway, i ended my long term relationship as i was unhappy, and me and this friend got closer, we kinda started dating but we didnt sleep together as i wanted more time to get over my relationship, anyway after a couple of weeks about 9 i think, we decided to sleep together.
i thought great, and the passion between us had been building up for weeks between us, and it was tense to say the least.
anyway the time came, and there is both of us thinking all is fine.......... then he went soft!!! :eek:
Not something i have experience b4, and i think he was
embarassed to say the least!! i said ok thats cool we will just go chill for abit and see what happens later in the evening, he went real cold on me afterwards, so i took him home, this was a couple of days ago and although he has phoned and txted me, i seem to be the one doing all the chasing.i feel really bad, and i dont know if he has gone off me or if it was just cos he is still embarrassed. has anyone else had this happen??
if so is there anything i can do to make him feel better.
sorry its so long.
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