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Did I make the right choice?
BillieTheBot
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This is a follow-up to this
On Monday, I spoke to Steve and I actually enjoyed it even though he did ignore me a few times, but when I asked him, he did explain that he was watching the snooker. Because I don't understand the game that much, I asked him some questions about it which he answered.
We spoke again on Wednesday evening about football and other stuff for a few hours trhen I told him that I had to go.
On Thursday, we spoke again but after an hour or so, he decided to change his status to 'Busy' therefore not talking to me which I wasn't too happy with. (Generally, if I change my status, I will always tell him that I'm going to do something, chnage my status then go ahead and do what I need to do)
Last night, he didn't sign into MSN which I wasn't too happy about because I'd waited for about 5 hours for him to sign in so that I could get some stuff off him.
This morning he was online but didn't sign into MSN even when I asked him to. I then said something like 'If you don't sign in within the next hour, I will never talk to you again'. He still ignored that. I then emailed him and told him to either sign into MSN or lose a friend. (Not the exact words, but this is what I meant)
I've now deleted him off my list. (not blocked him though which means he'll still try to contact me)
So, did I really make the right choice here? I've known him for nearly 3 years and he's basically made the last 2 years hell for me; but making it sound like it's MY fault that everything's turned out the way it has done.
On Monday, I spoke to Steve and I actually enjoyed it even though he did ignore me a few times, but when I asked him, he did explain that he was watching the snooker. Because I don't understand the game that much, I asked him some questions about it which he answered.
We spoke again on Wednesday evening about football and other stuff for a few hours trhen I told him that I had to go.
On Thursday, we spoke again but after an hour or so, he decided to change his status to 'Busy' therefore not talking to me which I wasn't too happy with. (Generally, if I change my status, I will always tell him that I'm going to do something, chnage my status then go ahead and do what I need to do)
Last night, he didn't sign into MSN which I wasn't too happy about because I'd waited for about 5 hours for him to sign in so that I could get some stuff off him.
This morning he was online but didn't sign into MSN even when I asked him to. I then said something like 'If you don't sign in within the next hour, I will never talk to you again'. He still ignored that. I then emailed him and told him to either sign into MSN or lose a friend. (Not the exact words, but this is what I meant)
I've now deleted him off my list. (not blocked him though which means he'll still try to contact me)
So, did I really make the right choice here? I've known him for nearly 3 years and he's basically made the last 2 years hell for me; but making it sound like it's MY fault that everything's turned out the way it has done.
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That's what I thought. But do I really want to lose a friend of 3 years just because he's decided to act like a child?
The last two, he made your life hell.
Dont embarrass yourself. if hes acting like a cock, dont be his friend.
Fair point. I have a feeling now he's going t have a go at me f he signs into MSN...
Why do you think that? It's him who is ignoring me all the time for no reason then having a go at me if I do the same thing...
It wasn't all hell though; only some of the time it was.
I don't really see the problem. He sounds like a bit of a dick so why bother reacting at all?
You're trying to justify not having the guts to cut all contact. I had a very similar 'friendship' and even when everybody around me was telling me to cut contact because he was bad chickens I stubbornly told myself 'it wasn't ALL bad' and continued.
Honestly, what did you want us to say? That you were being childish for deleting him and that he's done nothing wrong? If you're not going to listen to us then best not ask for our opinions.
It's not a 'story'. The truth is as follows:
He made most of 2 years hell. It was weird because I'd go for months without no problems at all. Then I'd just have problems for a few weeks then it would all calm down again.