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question aobut girl and jelous

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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question for girls:
if you liked a guy would you tell that guy you liked a different guy just to make him jelous

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no because he would most likely take that as me not being interested in him. if i liked him i would tell him that. he shouldn't need to be jealous to like me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No because if a guy is worth dating then I shouldn't need to make him jealous to get him to like me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't.... but i could see why some people would... you could work out how he felt from how he reacted...a lthough like i said, i wouldnt do this as its kinda cruel
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That stupid imo, if you like him just tell him... why do you want to tell him you like someone else, first it might not make him jalous and secondif he like you he might as well think he doesn't have a shot... you are not even with him and you want to lie to him already... be honest... tell him you like him or make it understand and get your answer...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no because the guy would think you're not interested in him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    no because the guy would think you're not interested in him.


    exactly.

    it'd be a bit stupid to.

    if someone liked me and then told me they liked someone else i'd probably be like ok bye!
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Like everyone else said, no. That's quite a poor idea IMO.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The only time I've done something like that was when I've tried to be a hurtful bitch.
    If it was a guy I genuinely liked and wanted to start dating I'd think I was shooting myself in the leg if I told him I fancied somebody else. If I blow him off in his first attempt, then why should he try again?
    But there's also a possibility that I may not be sure I like him and there's possibly somebody else on my radar that I'm obsessing over. But strategically, it would be in my best interest not to mention 'that other bloke'. ;)

    So basically, no.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you also have to remember that guys and girls minds work differently. there really is no point in mind games coz the guys just won't get it!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    you also have to remember that guys and girls minds work differently. there really is no point in mind games coz the guys just won't get it!!
    Ah, but they're not supposed to 'get it', as long as it has the desired effect, that's all that matters.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    Ah, but they're not supposed to 'get it', as long as it has the desired effect, that's all that matters.

    but i think what she means is it might not have the desired effect 'cause they might not get it. if that makes sense.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    but i think what she means is it might not have the desired effect 'cause they might not get it. if that makes sense.
    Oh yeah, I agree he probably wouldn't 'get it' in that sense. If someone says to me "I like him" then that would instantly put the dampners on me fancying them. If, however, they continued to flirt with me, giving me a little bit of hope, while going out with other guys, it'd probably make me think about/want them more.

    Oh, and doing that on purpose is really cruel by the way, so don't do that just to get what you want.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    but i think what she means is it might not have the desired effect 'cause they might not get it. if that makes sense.
    :yes: thanks luc, see what i mean. even when they think they get that they're not supposed to get it they don't get it. :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    :yes: thanks luc, see what i mean. even when they think they get that they're not supposed to get it they don't get it. :razz:
    :confused: Stop confusing men. It's not fair. :grump:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    :confused: Stop confusing men. It's not fair. :grump:
    :lol: come here you. bless.
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