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feeling sorry4my ex please help!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok it goes a little something like this;
my girlfriend dumped me and went out with someone else (i was really hurt) and today she got dumped by him she was upset crting ya no the shit!
but i no i shouldent give a monkeys but i feel sorry for her and i want to lend a helping hand she has no friends that live close she is always alone after school (well now she broke up with me and now he dumped her) i sent her a txt it reads;hi eve i no u more then likely hate me but i no how u feel r u gonna be ok im not rubbin it in or any think i just dont like da thought of any one going threw dat txt bk.
do you think i should help her or i should leave her any help would be helpfull
thanx dude's!!! and dudesse's!!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What are bobies?! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    If you remained friends after you split up then texting her like this is ok, you're just being friendly.

    If you didn't remain friends, she probably thinks you're rubbing it in!

    Either way, she may be feeling vulnerable and confused right now, and might want to get back with you. Don't rush into anything and remember that what she thinks she feels now, she mightn't really!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well we aint really friends but i feel bad coz it hurts like hell i actually have another girlfriend now so its not love with her i want ne more but i no how it hurts and this guyis prankin her house fone and shit im actually friends with him but i dont wanna fight with her
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Offering your support was an admirable thing to do. If you won't be hurt by it, you should go for it. Since she was the one that dumped you, I don't see why it would hurt her--she may even feel better that you still care about her as a person.

    2. If you are there for her, will it affect your relationship with your new girlfriend, and her ex, whom you say is your friend?

    3. Please try using punctuation. It will make your problem easier to decipher, and you will most likely get more advice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you are friends with him, and you feel sorry for her, then it is obvious what you must do. Tell him to leave her alone.

    He doesn't want to be with her, so why does he have to make her feel any worse. He needs to grow up. Send him round my way, I'll teach him a few manners!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by im NOT depressed now:
    <STRONG>hi eve i no u more then likely hate me but i no how u feel r u gonna be ok im not rubbin it in or any think i just dont like da thought of any one going threw dat txt bk.
    do you think i should help her or i should leave her any help would be helpfull
    thanx dude's!!! and dudesse's!!!!!</STRONG>

    I shouldn't worry, I don't think she'll have understood a word of your text message.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to decipher especially for barbie <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Hi Eve, I know you more than likely hate me but I know how u feel. Are you going to be ok? (Actually, I wasn't sure if that was mean to be that or 'I know how you feel, you are going to be ok.'). I'm not rubbing it in or anything, I just dont like the thought of any one going through that. Text back.

    It's all pretty easy to understand really.

    [ 29-05-2002: Message edited by: Daisychainthing ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks Daisy! I do have a mobile but none of my friends speak like that!! Must be an age thing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok i talked to her today and she really apriciated it she told me she wanted to tell me thank you in person for sending that text to her and she did it whilst her ex was outside and that took guts coz she really really hates him and i think he will just take the pissany time he see's her now but im gonna be there 4 me as a friend
    I thought she was a bitch but ive learned she is just a bithch to people she dont like if ur a good friend with her then she will be a good friend back.
    thanks to every one who replys.
    and barbie get with the 2002 trend it saves money and effort to text like that coz it uses less space u should try it!!!!
    thanks everyone
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by im NOT depressed now:
    <STRONG>
    and barbie get with the 2002 trend it saves money and effort to text like that coz it uses less space u should try it!!!!
    thanks everyone</STRONG>


    You aren't texting us so there was no need to type it like that. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> In closing, before you moan at others, Barbie being an example, maybe you should post these things using punctuation, etc. Just a thought.

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    [ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: Daisychainthing ]
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