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what do u reckon - I'm lost

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi,

I split up with my gf a while ago and now I'm getting conflicting messages.

She sent me a text saying she had found a voucher for £2.50 for sainsburys which she had promised me and did i want it or what. The thing is we used to use those vouchers (you know the ones that you save up points for) to get things for 'special nights' like mabe put it towards a bottle of wine or some nice chocolates. It kind of hurt a bit but maybe I am just reading too much into it. Also she said it makes more sense if she just gives me the money because there isn't a sainsburys near me which to me implies she isn't expecting me to visit there again. What do you think?

Also she says that she misses me and enjoyed talking to me but the other night she said that she wouldn't think of a single thing she liked about me. Then she said that if she is to ever get back together with me then she will need certain things from me and she will have to be able to trust me. What I read into that is that she still has feelings for me but is scared incase she gets hurt.

Also I asked her if she had any dreams for the future and she said "If I had any hopes then I'd never have dumped you" but then later on she said "if I tell you how I really feel then you'll just use it to manipulate me". But then the other day she got mad at me and said "I know for definate now that I made the right choice when I dumped you" but one of mates thinks she might have just said that out of anger.

I duno what to think. Any advice or interpretation on the above would be gratefully accepted. I could go on and on forever with all the messages but I won't!

Thanks
AnnMarie

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Difficult-- depends what the reasons for breaking up were-- if the issue is trust, all you can do is try to re-build it-- but it really does have relevance to the situation of the split
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to be honest, i think the whole voucher thing could just be an excuse to see you. that could be why she wants to give you money for it instead, cos she hasnt got a voucher!

    not sure if that helps tho...........? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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