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he can't cum during sex!
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me and my partner have been together for nearly 3 years, and we have a reasonably healthy sex life. we're using comdoms and i'm on the pill to regulate my periods.
no matter what we try he just can't seem to cum from sex, which is kind of annoying me! he's said that it's not that i'm not tight enough but it just doesn't seem to happen, he doesn't even get close and we do go on for quite a while sometimes...he says he still enjoys it but i want him to enjoy it that much more.
what can we do/try? we have done many posistions, tried different types of comdoms and nothing makes much difference. i can make he cum by other ways, but sex just doesn't seem to get it....
help!
no matter what we try he just can't seem to cum from sex, which is kind of annoying me! he's said that it's not that i'm not tight enough but it just doesn't seem to happen, he doesn't even get close and we do go on for quite a while sometimes...he says he still enjoys it but i want him to enjoy it that much more.
what can we do/try? we have done many posistions, tried different types of comdoms and nothing makes much difference. i can make he cum by other ways, but sex just doesn't seem to get it....
help!
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I suspect worry may be the root of the probelm :yes:
That and the pressure you're putting on him to come.
i suppose i am putting him under some pressure, but he says he really doesn't care because he enjoys it anyway...maybe i'm being a little possesive about it...
good question...
As well did he ever manage to come by masturbating?
does he use any kind of drugs?
Well i am going to be honest with you why this happens.
1- He can't really feel the heat + sensation to really enjoy it. because he's wearing a condom.
2 - He masturbates wayyyy too much on his own to really get use to normal sex.
3 - It's all in his head. Maybe the things that he usually masturbated to is wayyy more extreme to what he gets from you.
You have raised a post from the dead. 2006?!!!!
I repeat .. 2006 .... !
it's all about anticipation... sometimes guys find routines repatitive and often get numbed by it.. not to say he doesn't enjoy it its just he doesn't re-act in the same way...
I have managed to come 2 or 3 times since we started july last year but thats all
If its true that its because of masturbating too much then i guess im gna have to stop comletely
Bingo thats the source of the probelm i reckon.
Assure him your on pill +try it without condom see if that works.
If it does you know what the probelm was.:yes:
Ohyeah teagan god why didnt look at the date i just saw people had recently posted in it +added my opinion .