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does woman ever like a man who dont have money and any achievement as her intimate in her life
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Me too
Yer some do, some don't, also even those who say they don't will stress about money and come and moan at you for it... but not cos they want luxury, cos they want stability or something and well cos being someone partner mean also being the person they can come and moan at when they are stress... a relationship is not only about good moment, is also be there to help the other relieve some stress...
Thankfully yes or else I'd never get laid
Same here. However, I wouldn't really want to go out with someone who very poor, but OTOH, I wouldn't go out with someone just because they have laods of money.
*snort*
I think the money is less important than the achievement part of what you're asking, though I agree with I'm With Stupid in that they often go hand in hand.
I'd never automatically discount a relationship because the fella wasn't typically "successful" or hadn't achieved a lot by so-and-so's standards. That kind of thing isn't really important to me, but it is to a lot of people and I can understand why. Someone who had no discernable drive or ambition to achieve their goals (whatever they might be, not necessarily flashy cars, big house etc) in the future probably wouldn't be all that appealing to a lot of women. I assume it'd be the same way if the roles were reversed, too.
I couldn't agree more!! :yes:
unconditional love is whats needed in any relationship imo.
too much emphasis can be placed in financial gain,and not enough into the person.
But, then isn't the implication that we'd be expecting something to come out of their ambition and passion in the end, as what would be the point otherwise. A person could have all the motivation in the world and never actually achieve any of the goals they set themselves, I don't reckon many people would be attracted to that, as harsh as it sounds. But I could be wrong..
There's also a world of difference between going out with a chap because he's rich... and liking your partners to be financially viable and have a bit of cash knocking about. Especially if you've had past experience of a relationship with a parasite.
But money isn't the only sign of achievement; in fact its rarely a sign of achievement in young people, its usually a sign of daddy's achievement and muggish tendencies.
You can be attractive without money, but if you can't sit there and say "I did that" and "I want to do that" then you're really a dullard. If you can't do things for the person then you're boring and selfish. Who would fancy a dull person?
exactly :thumb:
Although a certain type of woman will find the potential for attempting to improve this kind of man irresistible.