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Crushing on a friend...
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I've always had a thing for a good friend of mine, he's a sweet, caring and down to earth guy. But over the past month I have gained quite strong feelings for him. The only problem is that he has a partner, but I'm not quite sure whats happening with their relationship. He told me a few weeks ago that I'm amazing and that he'd love to be with me if he was single. Since that day we've had a lot of chemistry between us, physicaly and emotionly. He rarely sees his girlfriend, they don't seem to make much effort before and I'm pretty possitive they're having problems. He's a lovely person and would never be unfaithful to a girl so I'm respecting that for him and I don't wanna seem like I'm getting involved in their love life. The thing is, he keeps giving me all these hints. He keeps coming round for me (it's an hour walk from his), staring over and making effort to sit near me when we're in a big group.
I adore him, and would do anything to be with him. But what should I do? Do I talk to him about this, do I wait until him and his girlfriend eventually split up or what? Please help me, love Josie.
I adore him, and would do anything to be with him. But what should I do? Do I talk to him about this, do I wait until him and his girlfriend eventually split up or what? Please help me, love Josie.
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however if you're such good friends already have you thought about the consequences if it doesn't work out? i can't stress enough that going out with a close friend is difficult because you think that because you're already friends its easier but that isn't always the case. and then if you break up it can have detrimental effects onto your friendship.
SORRY IF I'M BEING NEGATIVE! but just tell him lol :yes:
infact i make make a post about this!!
Moral is be careful, always risky when getting into a relationship with friends! But the best ones can come from it..x
He won't ditch his girlfriend if he ain't sure to get together with you.
I'd be flattered if a female friend told me she had feelings for me. I'd go for it in an instant.