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IMO it's a nice way to reject you...
But then again it aint a sure thing, but sounds like it to me...
Yeah, sorry mate, but in my experience when a girl feeds you some bullshit lines about your personality or character or something it's usually the nice way of giving you the brush off.....
I disagree although I think it depends on the tone which it was said.
I have actually said this line before and it was because the guy was a really interesting person and quite 'different' I really liked the fact that I couldn't work him out and wanted him to know that I was interested in finding out more about him.
Did you went out with him at the end?
Yes for about a month, then I finally "worked him out"....he was a wanker :razz:
Well, did she say it with pity in her voice or excitement?
To be honest though if you've already agreed to be friends for the time being then thats what you gotta do, if you bring it up again too soon you might totally put her off. A bit of flirting wouldn't go a miss though.
Yeah I know what you mean but like I said, flirting is always fun. :yes:
But thats my experience. If it was me in this situation, when she said she needed more time I would have cooled things off and just been friends and not flirted so much anymore. However, you never know with these things
On the one hand, if shes worth it then its not an issue to wait. On the other, if its meant to be and you've got chemistry then why the big hold up? I'm not one to be bold and move quickly, but if guy likes girl and girl likes guy back then pretending otherwise is just wasting time, and you might die tomorrow, and then it would suck. Cuddles are too precious to be wasted!
Just some food for thought though. Don't let her mess you around
Life is too short.
Women want a man who is confident and doesn't second guess.
So, next time you see her, make the move, get her off guard, kiss her and see where it goes.
If you get blown off, than at least you know where you stand and you can move on.
Pleanty of other women around.
In person she seems to be getting a better idea about what's going on. You really need to be dealing with this in person now.
I wouldn't force the issue if you've said it once, I would wait a bit, but if she's still seeing you and seems interested then I wouldn't write it off yet.
I would invite her out for a drink or a meal, but nothing too formal, and see where it goes. You will probably need to bite the bullet and make a move on her, a lot of girls need that to see that you mean business.