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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I've got a new boyfriend and he's I think more experienced than me, and he knows that so I'm not trying to keep it secret or anything, but... I've always got the feeling in the past I'm not very good at giving blow jobs... simple question - any tips?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ask him how he likes it

    Would probably turn him on to tell you to be honest!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ask him what he likes and be creative.

    If you aren't into it or don't fancy it. Don't do it, there will be noo point.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When the time comes, just be candid. Tell him you don't think you're very good at oral sex, and that you'd like him to help you improve. If you can communicate your needs to one another correctly, he could be having mind-blowing blowjobs in no time! And who knows, he might return the favour. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree! And if you play it well, he might even be turned on by the hopeless-innocent approach.

    My last bf had some gay experiences and so he knew exactly what to do! Made me feel pretty bad and humiliated, but we worked it out in the end!

    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    make it wet
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Blah wrote:
    Ask him how he likes it

    Would probably turn him on to tell you to be honest!

    :yes: probably the best advice - also have a look at TheSite's article on giving good head

    Have fun and be safe ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Helen** wrote:
    :yes: probably the best advice - also have a look at TheSite's article on giving good head

    Have fun and be safe ;)
    Write that yourself, did you? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FluffAndStuff wrote:
    I've got a new boyfriend and he's I think more experienced than me, and he knows that so I'm not trying to keep it secret or anything, but... I've always got the feeling in the past I'm not very good at giving blow jobs... simple question - any tips?

    Just give his testicles a feel now and again and go deeeeep! I'll love it! Sorry He'll love it........ :banghead: :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol!!!

    Don't pull it off either.
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    Write that yourself, did you? :D

    Nope - 'fraid I can't take the credit for it :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Helen** wrote:
    :yes: probably the best advice - also have a look at TheSite's article on giving good head
    Have fun and be safe ;)
    Who writes these articles? How does it work - does one of the mods suddenly get a phone call from management saying "write some articles about sucking cock and going down on women"? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what would be a funny call.

    hell of a place to work, what a job. Writing sex tips :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MattLiverpool wrote:
    Stick your finger up his bum too, that will give him a shock! :shocking: :shocking:

    But tis always best to check they like having their prostate tickled rather than just shoving your finger up there ;) i.e. by lightly stroking the area with a finger first and seeing how they respond, then lube lube lube

    Do try getting him to tell you what feels good to him, it's a very intimate thing to do and you both benefit in the process
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Walkindude wrote:
    what would be a funny call.

    hell of a place to work, what a job. Writing sex tips :)
    Lol, they give the work experience people the boring drugs information ones. No fair! Haha. Though I got to write about Viagra heehee
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ooo!! You actually write for the site???

    Nice!!

    So what interesting bits of info did you write on viagra?? ;)

    maybe if you work real hard and eat your greens, one day you will get to write about blowjobs and anal sex :D:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I managed to find a place that he really liked when I put pressure on it... Uhm... Behind the testicles some place?

    Apparently gay people do it o.O But it's good and turned him on like LOTS! So yeah... Ignore me...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Interesting!!

    that bit between the balls and the butt hole??

    the weakest spot on a man??

    hmm. No thad it done but sounds about right lol.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes! Maybe I'm not so hopeless. Aheh...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ah!! Nice.


    indeed.

    The Force is strong with this one.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mmm... heheh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you aren't into it or don't fancy it. Don't do it, there will be noo point.[/QUOTE]

    I told my bf that i dont like giving blow jobs and he said fine and that hes just happy wit a good hand job which makes him cum like a champ everytime! Just talk 2 him!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    superchick45 wrote:
    I told my bf that i dont like giving blow jobs and he said fine and that hes just happy wit a good hand job which makes him cum like a champ everytime!
    And of course, the bonus with that one is, if the woman doesn't know how to give a hand job, he teaches her, they start learning how to please each other, and so on...
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