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Bugger Bugger and More Bugger
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The only bloke I've been interested in in ages and he has a gf :mad:
WHY? Blah I just want to rant, I meet blokes in bars, clubs etc but they arent they type I go for, I dont want one night stands anymore and what kind of boyfriend would just pick a random girl up?
Im so willing to be a perfect girlfriend to someone who would just appreciate me and make time for me, why cant it happen? Im not a minger, Im pretty easy going, have my own money and my own car-What could possibly be wrong with me?
WHY? Blah I just want to rant, I meet blokes in bars, clubs etc but they arent they type I go for, I dont want one night stands anymore and what kind of boyfriend would just pick a random girl up?
Im so willing to be a perfect girlfriend to someone who would just appreciate me and make time for me, why cant it happen? Im not a minger, Im pretty easy going, have my own money and my own car-What could possibly be wrong with me?
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You find people in the strangest places sometimes.
Now I feel like sueing for misleading information, he's not like that at all
yeh 'cause you're a nobhead. :yeees:
i know how you feel but you kinda have to just chill out and go with the flow. when you meet someone who is worth your time, you'll meet them. until then just try to enjoy trying to find him.
Fuck off back to Chalfont and get AIDS off your mate's mum.
Nowt wrong with you char_baby, except possibly working for a bank:p
You and I are such catches, but no one wants to know.
Pisses me off.
It's not the BBC is it?
Just keep being out, you'll find someone who isn't a twat. Honest.
Am willing to pimp them out ...
Honestly there are good guys out there
Thanks 1983, bet his girlfriend is a right bunny boiler or something
Hi there,
don't know you but after a read through i know exactly how you feel! here we are, normal or what we consider to be better than normal people and nobody sees that! don't know about you but i've found picking people up in bars etc doesn't lead to anything long term...
most of my friends found their GFs either through a friend or work etc or totally random way! don't see how you can work at it - just seems to happen when you least expect it! Grrr irratating isn't it?
So I reckon you have a great chance. Especially if you are willing to be the perfect girlfriends as you claim lol.
Maybe its your choice in blokes? I mean do you go for the awesomely popular good looking ones all the time maybe?
Look around, I am sure there are tons gf guys willing to be your bf
I treat women nice, bit of a romantic at heart. Get told their looking for a nice guys to treat special, but then get told i'm too nice. I wouldn't say i'm a saint in anyway, i have me good/nice side and my bad/naughty side. I'm thinking about giving up looking, as thats what i did the last time when met my ex.
makes no difference for me unfortunately
That's obviously because you spent all your time whingeing about your love life.
You might as well take out an advert on the side of a bus saying "don't go with me".
Did you try and get them to have sex in a bus shelter in the middle of the day? If so I can see why you are single
Maybe your happily married but not all of us are ok?? Jesus christ, you were never single? never had a problem in the world? never gotten down and never been bored at work which could make you post on a message board?
Knee High......sigh, go back and read that thread and you will see why I posted.
I am to please.
Course I have, what's your point caller?
I will admit I am one of those people who was on the floor, and dragged myself up by the bootlaces, and don't get why other people won't even try though.
The point is the site is a messag ebaord that deal with issues, people who have problems come and ask for advice, yes and chat normally to, but costnatly putting people down who may already be at a low eb doesn't help them.
You have what you want already, form your posts I know your happily married, have a fair job and is doing ok in life.
Remember it wasn't always like that and some people are at the stage you were years ago.
Juts be considerate.
About your crush becoming your buddy I know you've been put in a situation you'd least like to be in, but instead of going into it with negative thoughts think of it as a challenege to yourself. I don't know what job you do, but think of it as not allowing your feelings to get in the way of your job and try be as professional as possible. If that doesn't work and you can't stand it you might have to find one reason or another to be asked to be assigned to another buddy,
I hope that helps and i wish you the best of luck .