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Adivce

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Ok her is the situation

I am 19 and currently at University and one night i was out on my own and this girl came up to me and told me she was from the same place as me, however i was drunk at the tune and cant recall what i was saying to her. However ive got her mobile number and we have been textin and i often see her with her mates when she is out, I think she is really fit but i dnt know if she has a bf, i have kinda been flirtin with her in the texts but i wanna take it further and go out with her.

How do i do this?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ask her? if youve been in touch and are texting then id say shes interested.. so when you text her next just ask if she fancies going for a drink sometime.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have tried that before but she didnt reply, yet we still text each other and flirt in text a bit. Do you think shes takin me for a ride ?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i mean she could have a bf and just be winding me up
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Next time you see her out, go and plant the lips on her. Quickest and most sure-fire way of finding out whether she is or isn't interested. :thumb:

    Or just send her a text asking if she fancies a quiet drink sometime?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    phone her. that way she has to say something. i guess she could be taking you for a ride but you wont know unless you ask her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wot if she dnt reply to that but dose to other texts and still flirts in them. is she playin hard to get
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe... maybe she just wants to get to know you better before she agrees to anything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she doesn't answer you calling/meeting to ask her out, just forget her. She's probably using you as an ego boost if that's the case.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Text her and arrange to meet up for a drink on your own with her, then just ask her.... hope it goes well whatever you do :)
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Kat_B wrote:
    phone her. that way she has to say something. i guess she could be taking you for a ride but you wont know unless you ask her.

    :yes: University can be a pretty heady time with lots of flirting which can either mean something or nothing - if you don't ask you'll never know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah I regret not asking more in uni :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote:
    Next time you see her out, go and plant the lips on her. Quickest and most sure-fire way of getting a slap

    Fixed. ;) Yeah, just ask her if she wants to go grab a drink sometime.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    L.Com wrote:
    i mean she could have a bf and just be winding me up
    I think it's too early stages to know that. You just have to keep trying until you find out. I agree maybe she wants to know you a bit more before she goes out alone with you. but you'll have to risk a bit and have some patience to find out!
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