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intimidating 'yoofs' are actually just looking out for themselves
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Shouldn't that be less likely
Anyway...it's true enough. No one likes to walk around town by themselves. It's good to have a group, it shows you have people willing to stick up for you and shows identity and shit like that.
Yes it should.
At least kids that hang around in groups are learning some social skills. Far better than a generation of square eyed, pale skinned Playstation addicts.
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Got it in one!
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Yet again you got it sorted.
I hate all these people that are over protective. I'm more ready for what life has to give me more than most people. I got into fights, I got beat up and it's all a learning experience. Wouldn't regret it for a second.
You're right. A bit of youthful violence is character building, bond-strengthening and life-affirming. If you don't learn how to fight, then being assertive is difficult in later life...it's a primal, evolutionary thing in our psyche...a reflection back to the past when a challenge = violence.
I think the increasing modern abhorrence towards this sort of thing is born of what i call evolutionary insecurity. Over-protection leads to resentment of violence as any way justified or natural because to suggest otherwise implies socialisation has lead to a sort of evolutionary dysfunction by turning people away from their inherent primal nature.