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Revenge or Not?
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I kind of got revenge on a guy who cheated on me recently. It wasnt all intentional, but i couldnt trust him in the end. Okay, maybe it made me as lame as him in the end, but i cant believe the way hes acting like a complete sorry for himself victim getting people to feel bad for him. Claiming that im messing with his head. He messed me around so i did the same to him. He deserves what he got. I hope he wont be messing anymore girls around! Makes me so mad, when i know i shouldnt let it get to me. But, being cheated on for the first time hurts. Next time i think ill just walk away and never look back.
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what exactly did you do to get revenge anyway?
Do you think you would get revenge on somone if they hurt you? Have you done before? Play with your heart/head, play with theirs? Or have you generally just walked away in the first place if its happened?
Okay thanks for that
i think number 2 and 3 would probably fail miserabley
Left his phone details on some website and advertised it in a few places so he got strange calls. Is illegal i know so took it down after a few days. Then in a sense i guess i did by getting back with him then finishing with him as i realised i just cant trust the bugger. The last time i ended up going off with someone else. One complete mess it sounds, but i really dont like being fucked over by people. Guess we have both played with eachother, now realised the whole thing was a complete waste of time! I ended up trying to be on neutral terms, but he so wasnt having any of it. So looks like we are enemies now. Its ridiculous!
Yep I'm with ya, like i say though I think it's the girly chats and planning of revenge which is the fun part anyway. :razz:
I see your point. I dont appreciate peoples feelings being played with either and i totally went against my usual morals, never done this before but i really liked him i guess. Wanted to get back with him, but my friends really wernt happy about me being with him. Once a cheater always a cheater was what was going on in their minds. I can totally see their points, hardly know him anyway. Playing with my feelings and another girls aint very nice! Told me that he would be my puppet, so i guess i used him as a puppet as he also did with me! We live in such a nice world lol
In seriousness, I've never managed to get revenge on an ex or anyone really! If I could think of a fool-proof and hilarious plan then I probably would, but as is I just can't be arsed.
Nothing wrong with revenge!
Get vengeance on his ass.
REVENGE EVERY TIME!! :yippe:
Man I hope your fiance shaves off your eyebrows.
I had to go see my cheating wife last week to get her to sign some paper work. She was all friendly (too friendly imo). At one point she asked me what i've been upto, told her about all the courses i'm doing via work, seeing niccie, and works picking up, and that having trouble finding and spare time to do anything else. She asked who niccie was i said my girlfriend. and the face she pulled, god did she really believe i'd say single and not move on. i think she did.