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Blokes: Top 5 reasons for breaking up

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Surprised no-one's done it yet, so I thought I would. Any thoughts?

Oh and I know it's customary for the person starting the thread to answer first, but I'm about to go home from work (what? ahem. did I say work? Of course not, I don't go on the internet during work) so I'll post mine after tea.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Not talking anymore
    2. Nothing in common
    3. Realise she's ugly
    4. She cheated
    5. Feel trapped and pressured
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    - You're not attracted to her.
    - She cheated.
    - Boring relationship.
    - You realise she is your mate's ex.
    - Over an argument.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. I'm not happy
    2. Cheating
    3. Can't compromise on small things
    4. No respect for me
    5. No love (if no kids)

    General rules, depends on situation and feelings involve...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1)Cheating
    2)Loss of chemistry/attraction
    3)Don't relate
    4)Isolation
    5)Not paying you enough attention/taking you for granted
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Cheating.
    2. Loss of sex life.
    3. Arguing.
    4. Meeting someone better.
    5. Never seeing them.

    Of the five, only the first one can't be worked through.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. She's cheated
    2. Don't talk anymore
    3. Chemistry no longer there
    4. Nothing in common anymore
    5. Cant comprimise on anything/has to have her way 100% of the time
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheating
    Nasty/Mean
    Selfish
    Grown apart
    Don't see each other
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheating seems to be much more of a thing in the blokes one than in the girls' one. I suppose we're more tolerant of stuff like that than guys are. Strange.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) No longer attracted.
    2) Too much moaning.
    3) Insults ("lazy fucking junkie nothing bastard" was one a while back :cool: )
    4) Prudish.
    5) Differing 'wavelength'.

    Not necessarily in that order.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) When her better looking mate starts getting my jokes
    2) Fatal words 1: "why do I always cook?!?!" (because its give and take!!! You give and i take)
    3) When the pants expansion gets so bad i can't tell which are her's and which are my boxers
    4) Fatal words 2: "perhaps you should cut down on your drinking" (What its you or the drink? Well I can only put up with you with a drink so ta ra)
    5) Fatal words 3: "but i always take the dildo ..." (ignore previous give and take rules!!!!)

    disclaimer: may not be actual reasons for beak ups
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    quarfly wrote:
    - You're not attracted to her.
    - She cheated.
    - Boring relationship.
    - You realise she is your mate's ex.
    - Over an argument.


    OMG, ARE YOU A GUY?!

    I always thought you were a girl. :|
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lil_kazzy wrote:
    Cheating seems to be much more of a thing in the blokes one than in the girls' one. I suppose we're more tolerant of stuff like that than guys are. Strange.

    Nah, I think we just find it easier to be hypocritical than girls do...maybe!
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