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Girls: Top 5 reasons for breaking up...

Girls what are you 5 main reasons for breaking up?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. hes being a cunt
    2. he takes the relationship too seriously
    3. he dresses really badly
    4. he doesnt appreciate my friends/family and their importance to me
    5 he puts me down
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Getting too serious
    2. Bad Kisser
    3. Immature
    4. Insenstive
    5. Nothing in Common WhatSoEver
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    4. he appreciate my friends/family and their importance to me

    Did you mean he doesn't appreciate them? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh i meant doesnt thanks for pointin that out :D doh lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not being honest,
    cheating on me,
    not being on the same wavelength - ie sense of humour/intelligence/politics/values
    him dumping me,
    not being in love anymore, or not feeling like its going to develop into anything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not being honest,
    cheating on me,
    not being on the same wavelength - ie sense of humour/intelligence/politics/values
    him dumping me,
    not being in love anymore, or not feeling like its going to develop into anything.

    So basically your last relationship then?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm a bit confused by this thread.. is it reasons we have had for ending it? or is it possible reasons?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It completely depends who I was to break up with. Its different with every person.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    i'm a bit confused by this thread.. is it reasons we have had for ending it? or is it possible reasons?

    More possible reasons, as for any relationship depending on the level of feelings.
    In some case where you would break up with someone that isn't the love of your life can be different with someone you think is the one.

    So basically just possible reasons...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) taking the relationship too seriously
    2) not taking the relationship seriously enough
    3) putting his friends before me
    4) getting pissed off when I spend time with my friends
    5) for being too confusing

    sorry girls :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think if I loved someone, theres not many reasons i would break up with someone tbh. They could treat me like shit, but while i loved them i probably would stay - I know what im like.
    The only exceptions are if I thought my child was in danger from them, or possibly if I thought I was in danger, although not as much.
    The only real reason id leave someone was if I didnt love them anymore or they didnt love me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It wasn't like I had a choice in the matter! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Infidelity.
    2. Bad Kisser.
    3. Not enough in common. (interests/beliefs etc)
    4. Makes me feel insecure in any way.
    5. Too serious a person. (personality clash)

    Ilora x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he cheated
    had nothing in common
    wanted different things in life
    have no connection
    he hit me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if he abused me/treated me bad
    cheated
    didn't respect me
    lied about serious stuff
    basically if he put no effort into the relationship
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. If we had nothing in common
    2. If I didn't fancy/love him anymore
    3. If we fought too much
    4. If I decided I'd rather be with someone else (in this case, our relationship really wasn't going anywhere and we'd been fighting for the past few months, so I decided I'd rather be with someone who I got on better with and maybe had a future with)
    5. If his plan for life was different from mine (If he never wanted to have children then I couldn't stay with him on any sort of long-term basis)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) falling out of love
    2) violence
    3) Infidelity
    4) lack of respect and wont show any signs of changing back


    I can't think of anymore at the mo, this is based on long term partners. New partners, I have a million different reasons.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. infedility
    2. treating me bad/abuse/violence etc.
    3. unreasonable/no logic
    4. different views on life/nothing in common
    5. if no future
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Cheats
    2) lies
    3) Boring
    4) no s.o.h
    5) never up 4 trying new things
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Reading through some of these answers has made me think. If you would finish a relationship on the basis of them being a bad kisser - why would you go out with them in the first place?! It seems beyond me really. Same for having different interests - I mean, you would know all this before starting a relationship, right?

    Anyway, here's the few I could think of... in no particular order. :p

    1 - cheating on me
    2 - wanting different things from the relationship
    3 - if i stopped fancying/loving them
    4 - violence
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Reading through some of these answers has made me think. If you would finish a relationship on the basis of them being a bad kisser - why would you go out with them in the first place?! It seems beyond me really. Same for having different interests - I mean, you would know all this before starting a relationship, right?
    That's what I was thinking. Surely having nothing in common is a reason not to go out with someone in the first place, not a reason to break up with them? Unless not returning calls after a first date counts as 'breaking up'.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Cheating
    2) Arguing
    3) Lack of sex
    4) No communication
    5) Unhappy
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Hes being a bully or trying to control my life (Ive had that one happen)
    2) The relationship has fizzled out and your mates rather than anything else
    3) He cheats on me, with an ex and id kill him!
    4) He stops me from seeing mates or has a problem with it.
    5) If he has a problem with how I treat my guy mates.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rachie004 wrote:
    1. He's common
    2. He's cheap tight arsed bastard
    3. just don't fancy him anymore
    4. want totally different things out of life
    5. makes me feel bad


    i guess i satisfy the first 4
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Violence
    2. Cheating
    3. Lying
    4. Not letting me lead my own life and stifling my independence
    5. No sense of fun or humour and generally being too serious
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lying/cheating
    too clingy/serious too quickly
    nothing in common
    immatureness (if thats a word)
    violence/put downs etc
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my bother said he dosn' t like girls who are use money like taking a shower...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Violence
    2) LYING
    3) Cheating
    4) Being too clingy
    5) Trying to change me
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