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hey i really need some help i know this might sound silly and a bit of a stupid question but just need your opinions. i was with this lad the other night someone im seein. and we were on the settee and things were getting heated. i was really nervous and wasnt sure whether i wanted to have sex. he put it up me and then took it out. then put it up again and thrusted a couple of times and then took it out cus i said i didnt wanna have sex with him. anyway i dont think he come. cus it was only like two thrusts but is there any chance that i could get prenant. cus im not on the pill and we didnt use a condom. thanks sorry if its a stupid question
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true, he didnt come, but there is still the chance that some.. er leaked out!!
better safe than sorry i always say
So basically you'll have to wait for your period, and be more careful about people putting it in next time.
yes and you didn't ask him to use a condom.
sorry n all love.
many of us have been there but you can't try and pin the blame on him.
Though I am confused as what mentioning his age had anything to do with it...
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i know what you mean but did you not think...wait there, he's not using a condom and i'm not on the pill or anything? just curious, i;ve been there myself but wouldn't think that because someone was older than me that they'd be 'savy and wise' in not using protection.
It shouldn't "get your goat" because if she's old enough to be putting herself into sexual situations then she's old enough to know about protection.
No, the risk isn't high.
Yes, it's high enough to worry.
I would also say you go to the GUM clinic and get an STI test. That man could have been carrying anything.
And old enough to have realised that the world is harsh, people are mean and noone's gonna look out for you except yourself? well, that may be the truth of it but... it's a shame.
Well stupid men...
They will not think further as long as they know they're getting some...
And age as nothing to do with it, you have stupid people of all ages.
Also is there not the morning pill as well for that kind of situation?
Ah, bit late then...
Dont stress if its a little late coz stress will make it come later :crazyeyes
Thats exactly what i was goint to say... because there's nothing you can do about the pregnancy thing now except wait... but you still need to consider the other risks you have taken - STI's and STD's.