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Sex does nothing for her.
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Have to agree with you there, sex isn't just about you, you need to spend more time on your girlfriend.
That depends if the girl want to have a bit of control or if she want him to do
all the job... can't really say it is good, I think it depends on needs...
I would say try a few and see which one are best...
To maximise her pleasure, while penetrating, try to have some body contact with her clit as well, that way you produce cliut stimulation as well as
penetration and can then make her cum that way...
Even if you swap it doesn't mean it will keep on going longer, you might not doing anything while switching but you still have mental exitation...
As for finishing quickly, I wouldn't worry much as anticipation will make you
reproduce the situation, sometimes waiting a day or two will remove you
some stress and might make it easier to last longer... Mind can play tricks on you... Also you have penis ring you can buy that area suppose to slow you down and keep your hard longer....
And if it doesn't, well, try to make her come at least once during the foreplay, that way worste case scenario you both get yours...
I think sometimes it takes a while for a girl to relax and start enjoying sex, especially if shes under pressure to orgasm just so her guy feels like hes performed well, rather than just relaxing and enjoying the new sensations for what they are. Orgasm will happen naturally in its own time, not necessarily the first few times she has sex though, but she really needs to be not under pressure to come or it just wont happen - trust me. The most common way for a girl to orgasm is through oral sex - sometimes it can take a long time so dont be surprised if youre down there for a while. At this stage its just learning about the body and its trial and error, so dont place too many expectations.
Oh, and if she came, shed know it - its not a case of "we think she came becasue there was moaning and groaning - people moan and groan without coming, and some people come without making much noise at all. She really would know though. its pretty unmistakeable.
Dont forget contraception
Well they are having it anyway, so might as well give them a hand, and penis ring might not look good, but frustration from coming after 3 mins only is much worste, specially for him, than looking stupid and coming after having properly enjoyed it. If he stay up longer and give her longer sex and more pleasure I doubt she will think the penis ring is stupid for a long time...
Ok, thanks for the second point. But I don't remember titling this thread "Please post your opinions on underage sex. I love her. She loves me. We're doing it. We're doing it safely. Get with it.
Ok, you misunderstood what I wrote. I'm not worried about my cumming, I reguarly finger her and don't cum that day; sometimes a few days. It doesn't bother me. My main concern is always her pleasure.
'Bashing away' was more of a humourous point (Hence the ' ') rather than a depiction of real life. I vary speeds and angles.
Thank you, about the only post I even thought of listening to. The only person to actually help and understand my post. Will try that, thanks alot.
Thanks again. The only other post I'm taking on board. Her reaction my fingers (Sounds a bit dodgey) is quite eroptous and can sometimes be violent. I'm gasping for air because she's holding on too tight half the time :P
Thanks for treating me like an adult. :yippe:
We all know I type like one. None of this "Iz l77t so dnt cum dwn my endz" bollocks.
That is what I was thinking.