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It's my birthday in a months time...
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Hmmm, i'll be 22 then, great...i guess. Last year i spent my 21st on a train from birmingham to london...alone. That was nice, u know spending your birthday like any other day just watching people around and stuff.
Now i tried to ask people to join me this year but all i get is 'i dont know what im doing then yet'. Which to me has come to mean 'i'll only do it as a total last resorts because i know i can manage a lot better than that'. So i expect to spend this year alone too not doing anything. Hell what can you do by urself on your birthday apart from have a wank? I duno.
Reason of this post? I duno, just felt like writting something down of how i feel, i wana go to a club or pub but how bad is that, going by yourself, lots of fun to be had, even more so when you tell people its ur birthday and ur by urself, you'll be seen as a right winner there! A sexual stud one could say.
Hmmm sarcasm doesnt work in text too well without my friends :yeees: :thumb: :razz: :rolleyes:
:hyper:
Anyways its my birthday in a months time, 13th of febuary for those that wish to know, a great date, i get to share my birthday with one Mr Robbie Williams and also Friday the 13th occationally. Thats always a nice day, having people think your evil or cursed or something. Then the next day we have valentines day, this in years gone by often used to end up with me getting birthday cards with 'Happy valentines day' in them or valentines cards with 'happy birthday' in them. Way to send a clear signal girls, although it was clear, u didnt fancy me one bit.
But you know ive gotten used to accepting the excuse 'But its valentines day tomo, i gotta spend all my time with my bf/gf, sorry i cant come out with you for your birthday'. It only hurts a little bit now when i hear that.
So if you have read this far your probably wondering where the punch line is, or the reason for my post. Well as i said above, i dont know. Just wana write my thoughts down, no one reads my blog so thats crap, so sorry for those whos time i have stolen from you, probably all 5 minutes of it. So to reset the balance, dont smoke every day of your life, that way you'll earn back at least them five mintues of your life.
Thank you.
Now i tried to ask people to join me this year but all i get is 'i dont know what im doing then yet'. Which to me has come to mean 'i'll only do it as a total last resorts because i know i can manage a lot better than that'. So i expect to spend this year alone too not doing anything. Hell what can you do by urself on your birthday apart from have a wank? I duno.
Reason of this post? I duno, just felt like writting something down of how i feel, i wana go to a club or pub but how bad is that, going by yourself, lots of fun to be had, even more so when you tell people its ur birthday and ur by urself, you'll be seen as a right winner there! A sexual stud one could say.
Hmmm sarcasm doesnt work in text too well without my friends :yeees: :thumb: :razz: :rolleyes:
:hyper:Anyways its my birthday in a months time, 13th of febuary for those that wish to know, a great date, i get to share my birthday with one Mr Robbie Williams and also Friday the 13th occationally. Thats always a nice day, having people think your evil or cursed or something. Then the next day we have valentines day, this in years gone by often used to end up with me getting birthday cards with 'Happy valentines day' in them or valentines cards with 'happy birthday' in them. Way to send a clear signal girls, although it was clear, u didnt fancy me one bit.
But you know ive gotten used to accepting the excuse 'But its valentines day tomo, i gotta spend all my time with my bf/gf, sorry i cant come out with you for your birthday'. It only hurts a little bit now when i hear that.
So if you have read this far your probably wondering where the punch line is, or the reason for my post. Well as i said above, i dont know. Just wana write my thoughts down, no one reads my blog so thats crap, so sorry for those whos time i have stolen from you, probably all 5 minutes of it. So to reset the balance, dont smoke every day of your life, that way you'll earn back at least them five mintues of your life.
Thank you.
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About 30 seconds in all, I skim read it.
plus was crap cos i didn't have any presents, not even off my brothers
twas great fun
Thats rubbish
my 19th and 20th were far far better, 20th probably best yet (aside from the parties i had when i was younger). my 20th was good 'cause on the day me and my mates celebrated it, i had an exam. i got back from the exam and they were all at my house and had decorated it like a kids party with incredibles party bags and everything!
it's my 21st in may, not sure what i'm doing yet.
Do you not like suprises? Or do you not like mess
Easy enough to do, you just need to pace yourself, a standard measure shot will be digested in an hour, so if you paced the shots on the hour you wouldnt really even get pissed.
I think it would also depend on how much else you were drinking on top of those 21 shots
My 21st I spent in school, teaching and then planning for the next day. And I had a horrid ear and throat infection and was on antibiotics. I wasn't best pleased.
I did on the 20th, but after all that I have forgotten everything I ever knew about "parties"... So all I did was go for LAN games with some pals and not telling them it was my birthdat until after we were done playing, and then I paid for all of them.
This place is too full of, 'oh i can do it and i'm going to think about it for a week just to prove you wrong' people.
I was referring to the post you made about friends not turning up.
I like surprises