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men with an alcoholic or simply craczy girlfirned
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I'm going to admit right now I'm both. Yes, I'm obviouisly an aclohiolic. I quit one AA after two weeks. It runs in my famly, both sides for generations. I guess I had no chance. But for those of you with girlfriends as crazy as I am, why do you stay with them? Today, today I'm on my 4 or something day, I can't remember of 20mg paxil. I've been on 37.5 CR for years. I've been on 40mg prozac an so forth since long long ago. With somebody with such problems. Somebody who is the happiuest they've been in years spends an hour blabbing about their job and sadness to you who wants nothing more than to sleep, why would you st ay with them? Is it fake? My work is looking for anything to fire me apon b ecaue i'm a sicko who spends alot of time and the drs and thy want to fire but can't. why would you stay with them?
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I could only wish it was some hacker typing that. But alas, its what I question.
You speak so much truth and always make me think. Thanks hun, alot
Personally I like people with a spark, something that makes them stand out from the crowd, someone unpredictable so i'm never totally sure whats going on.
Crazyness I can deal with...boredom and predictability :no:
I'm not really sure. I don't understand what my boyfriend sees in me either tbh though. What Rainbow Brite said sound logical though.
hope you ok hun
No it's not.
Manda, your fiance loves you. He loves everything about you - the good and the bad. And the good must certainly outweigh the bad because he is still there with you.
Don't question it, just enjoy the ride. Enjoy being loved and loving someone back.
You know where I am xx
On a positive note, I've only had 2 drinks (about 4-ish shots worth) in the last week and I'm working on going onto a different ad/asad and i've not gotten all crazy nut job in the last week either
But I tend to have a 'no baggage' policy with relationships... I'm always there for friends to listen to, but in a relationship whilst there are always ups and downs in people's lives, I don't think I could cope with somebody who had serious mental problems and was always down, simply because they would not fulfil my needs. It wouldn't stop me from being their friend though.
You tend to find that vulnerability attracts guys more than it does women...i don't know any girls who have stuck around for long with depressive, vulnerable boyfriends but vice versa, it isn't uncommon.