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mis matched libidos

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
sometimes me and my boyfriend are ok. but a lot of the time resently we've been completely mismatched!

we're both at a bit of a loss as to what to do, we have been trying a few different things but nothing so far seems to have worked. we are both turned on by each other but not at the same time!

has anyone had a similar experiance and been able to sort it?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup, my gf is a lot less horny than I am generally. But I think it's fairly normal, although the pill may have an effect on your libido...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Replicant wrote:
    although the pill may have an effect on your libido...

    does it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    O_o wrote:
    does it?

    yup, infact the Dr said to her when she got it that one of the possible side effects is reduced libido :yes:

    (along with the more well known possibilities of increased appitite etc)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When I was on the pill my libido went sky high, my bf at the time couldnt keep up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Zella wrote:
    When I was on the pill my libido went sky high, my bf at the time couldnt keep up.

    that's just unfair :p

    suppose it effects everyone differently :)
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