If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
couples on holiday
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hiya,
Just wondering if anyone's relationship has been affected by spending to much time with one another whilst going on holiday together.Has it made you stronger,no affect or made you sick of each other after abit?
Just wondering if anyone's relationship has been affected by spending to much time with one another whilst going on holiday together.Has it made you stronger,no affect or made you sick of each other after abit?
0
Comments
i have been on holiday with two boyfriends the foirst when i was about 17 and everything that already irritated me about him just became magnified because there was no one else there that i knew and could speak to.
The second was with someone that i had been with for a couple of years and had spent lots of time with, it was just an extension of what our relationship was in england but in the sun and with more fun things to do. it was one of the best weeks of my life.
so i would say that it depends totally on how much you annoy each other or argue with each other whilst at home because all those little niggling annoying things will just be more noticeable.
Was supposed to with current boyfriend, but his new job started earlier than we thought...so it didn't happen *sigh*
I'd hope it would only be a good thing though!
You might like him, but that don't mean you can live with him. If you can't live with him then you don't really have much left.
It made us stronger living together.
Thats is just what I want to hear the day after my boyfriend has booked our first holiday together.
But as we don't really argue or annoy each other when we are together and we have just spent a whole week together around his house without any aurgements I'm sure we will be fine during our week in the sun. So as you said Mel-H it hopefully just be an of our relationship and one of the best weeks of my life. (but unlike last week none of his family are going to be there, as he lives with his brother and parents).
it's not just the being with them all the time, it's the stress of travelling, the heat, the lack of ability to go off and do your own thing when you get a bit uptight, the feeling of being in a strange place...
it's playing with fire
All good points there, luckly both me and my boyfriend have gone to Paphos in Cyprus a couple of times before, so we are not really going to a strange place. But you are right about the lack of ability to go off on your own.
We knew that we would either want to kill each other, or fall even more in love....
My first holiday was with my ex in Malta and it was just the two of us.That was really good.
I'm so glad no parents were there for my holiday with my boyfriend and then all my hoildays afetr just got better and better!!!!
Has any parents ruined your holiday whilst being with your partner?
Generally it's better for us to holiday seperately since we read very different things into the meaning of "relaxing break". I am looking forward to our upcoming skiing holiday though, we always have a great time on those.