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Cruel Siblings
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Do you have a brother or sister that just goes out of their way to be cruel to you, or use you?
There's just myself and my younger sister and she goes out of her way to take advantage of me and will lie and say anything to get her own way, trouble is my father will always take her side, so she gets away with it.
She's also the tightest person I know the other day she claimed she couldn't drive us to my aunt's house for christmas lunch because her brake lights weren't working so I drove, but then that same night she went out and I saw they're working perfectly!!.. she also takes my mum's car even though she has her own so she can use her petrol as well.
The other day she had this machine to make soft boiled eggs in the microwave and it has places for 4 eggs and she was making 2 so I said make me 2 as well at the same time and she said "No I can't because once they're cooked there's only two egg cup holders and I need them both"
She even took a bottle of wine yesterday to take over and drink at her friend's house that I bought for New Year's Eve and said I'm gonna replace it tomorrow (i.e. today) but I really think she just said that to take it for free and hope I forget about it...
And if I say anything I'm the one that gets yelled at
There's just myself and my younger sister and she goes out of her way to take advantage of me and will lie and say anything to get her own way, trouble is my father will always take her side, so she gets away with it.
She's also the tightest person I know the other day she claimed she couldn't drive us to my aunt's house for christmas lunch because her brake lights weren't working so I drove, but then that same night she went out and I saw they're working perfectly!!.. she also takes my mum's car even though she has her own so she can use her petrol as well.
The other day she had this machine to make soft boiled eggs in the microwave and it has places for 4 eggs and she was making 2 so I said make me 2 as well at the same time and she said "No I can't because once they're cooked there's only two egg cup holders and I need them both"
She even took a bottle of wine yesterday to take over and drink at her friend's house that I bought for New Year's Eve and said I'm gonna replace it tomorrow (i.e. today) but I really think she just said that to take it for free and hope I forget about it...
And if I say anything I'm the one that gets yelled at
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You can choose to do two things here. Sit and let them harass you or take up the fight. Find ways of nailing her ass instead of being the one that's always getting yelled at.
If you want to keep your virtue, you can always approach this problem from a different angle. This is talking to your parents, grassing your sister. For example, you could have just informed your parents about the car accident, telling them that there was no problem with the car.