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Who thinks it hurts?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hiya!
When my ex fingered me for the first time i thought he kinda hurt me, do any other girls think that it hurts? Or does it get better after a while?!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i woz fingered 4 the 1st time it hurt, yes. But it gets a lot better, trust me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most girls find that it hurts the first time they are fingered because a) either the hymen gets broken if it hasnt already or b) the skin around the vagina gets stretched a little during the experience! :P

    Its perfectly normal dont worry. After your body gets used to it, it dont hurt anymore,and youll be able to handle more fingers etc etc <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/otn/angels/littleangel.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No offence to the blokes here, but they do tend to be a little rough!!! If perhaps they'd slow down, take their time and not be so forceful then it wouldn't be so bad. When I first had that done to me, it didn't hurt at all, 'cos he was very patient and gentle. Sounds like ur ex should have been the same!

    Choc xxx
    "That sounds about as easy as slicing malt loaf..."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't worry, it hurt me the 1st time but it gets better and soon you'll be lovin it,lovin it,lovin it!
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