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I've just checked my emails and there is one from an adult friend finder. My fiancee is the only other person who uses this computer and it has his details. It says this
"My fantasy is to meet up with like minded strangers for fun
and sex in different places. She would be wearing a sexy
number and things would just go from there.
What role-playing scenes do you fantasise about?
Stranger/Stranger
What location do you fantasise about for a sexual encounter?
My Workplace
Using the location you chose as the best fantasy setting for a sexual encounter, tell us (in detail) about that encounter. Fact or fantasy?
She would turn up late in the evening when everyone else
had gone home in a sexy skirt and top. We would have wild sex
for hours in different places and positions.....
Tell us about a celebrity you fantasise having sex with. Who? What happens in your fantasy?
Cat Deeley..For reason as above.
Please help! What should i do. He's not home yet. We have a baby, we're supposed to be getting married!
"My fantasy is to meet up with like minded strangers for fun
and sex in different places. She would be wearing a sexy
number and things would just go from there.
What role-playing scenes do you fantasise about?
Stranger/Stranger
What location do you fantasise about for a sexual encounter?
My Workplace
Using the location you chose as the best fantasy setting for a sexual encounter, tell us (in detail) about that encounter. Fact or fantasy?
She would turn up late in the evening when everyone else
had gone home in a sexy skirt and top. We would have wild sex
for hours in different places and positions.....
Tell us about a celebrity you fantasise having sex with. Who? What happens in your fantasy?
Cat Deeley..For reason as above.
Please help! What should i do. He's not home yet. We have a baby, we're supposed to be getting married!
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I know it sounds bloody awful, but don't think the worst until you have spoken to him and know the truth.
a)it could be some shitty junk mail
b)he could just be going on some website, but not actually wanting to meet people?
If you love him - which I assume you do - then confront him about this and ask him why he signed up for adult friend finder. Ask him face-to-face if you are not pleasing him sexually. He has to know you are aware of this. If you keep this quiet, it will print holes in your head - which gradually largens.
He must love you in some way if he agreed to marry you.
It is your decision - of course. Good luck. :thumb:
hope things work out xx
The important thing is that you ask him about it. However, you have to try to take in his reaction. If he is a quick thinker he may come up with an excuse (should one be needed), but you could probably pick up that he is lying. Hopefully, as others have said, it is nothing. If you do have anything from the computer I'd hold it back at first, but then I like to try to give people a chance to bury themselves. I'd tell him I'd found that the site had been visited from our computer, and ask him about it. Give him a chance to say whatever, then bring up the email...etc.
However, all may not be as it seems.
The account could have been set up for a friend who didn't have internet access?
If he were to plan on cheating on you with random strangers, wouldn't he use an email account that you are not aware of?
Either he isn't very bright, and he's being a naughty boy. Or he's sorting something for a friend.
Did his profile have his photograph on it? Were the details accurate for him, or someone else that you know?
Either way, I think you're not going to be having much fun in the near future...
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